How to test whether your ex loves you? What happens if a man can't get back together?

After breaking up, many people often miss each other and are not sure whether they are interested in themselves. Today, I will talk to you about some ways to test whether your ex loves you or not. What will happen if men don't want to get back together?

How to test whether your ex loves you?

I care about you as a friend.

See if he will send you some ambiguous messages after breaking up, showing the tone of being caring and attentive. Although he may be subtle, he still loves you as long as you find out a little more carefully.

Second, he will be jealous if you send photos of the opposite sex.

You can try to send some photos of friends of the opposite sex in the circle of friends to see how he behaves. Generally, this situation will cause a man's jealousy and possessiveness, and he can't help asking you.

Third, be responsive.

If you have any difficulties or need his help, he will be happy to help you. There may be some silence in the process, but you see him taking care of what you told him.

Fourth, get to know your situation from your best friend.

Ask your friends and girlfriends directly to see if your boyfriend has come to inquire about you. Like this fake breakup, most boys will, as long as they use some methods, they can be successfully recovered.

What happens if men can't get back together?

Performance 1. I explained why I broke up with you. Many people break up because of temporary anger, so when they calm down, they often regret what they did before. But for men, when they break up and clearly explain the reasons for breaking up with you, he will definitely not give you another chance to get back together with him. Because he has made it very clear, he has made it very clear that he doesn't want to continue with you, so at this time, no matter what you do, he won't talk to you again. Now that he has told you the reason for his separation, it is enough to show that your position in his heart is not so important, and you are no longer the person he wants to spend his life with. So no matter what you say or do at this time, you and he can't get back together.

Performance 2: I don't care about your efforts. People often say that women in love have low IQ. They devote themselves wholeheartedly to each other, but they don't know that men have already changed their minds for you. But if a man's attitude towards you is getting colder and colder, and he doesn't care about your efforts, then the probability of getting back together after two people break up is very small, so there is no chance of getting back together.

When we get used to a person, we feel good no matter what the other person does or says, but when we start to hate a person, no matter how much the other person pays for you, you don't care and are ungrateful. So, dear female compatriots, when your man doesn't care about your efforts and is indifferent, don't expect to get back together with him. Even if we get back together, love won't last long.

Performance three, a new love object.

If a boy has a new partner after breaking up, there is no possibility for you to get back together. If he still has you in his heart, he won't find a new object so soon. Just because you are not so important to him, he thinks you have no future, and you are not the object he wants to spend his life with, so he gives up. When he has a new lover, it is almost impossible for you to get back together. Sometimes, letting go is also a sign of love.

Skills of chatting with former friends.

1 disconnect

When many girls break up, they will send some feelings of lovelorn in the circle of friends, indicating that they are lovelorn, and may even suggest that their predecessors have lost her. You think that when your ex sees this message, he will come back to you, which will only increase his dislike for you. Then don't do it, even if you are in a bad mood, don't let your ex see it.

Even if he comes back to you, it's only because he sympathizes with you. Therefore, the most important thing now is to disconnect, not to confess to each other, and to give both sides a quiet space.

2 Show positive energy

After a while, both of them figured it out, and they can send some news about each other in the circle of friends. It is best to send positive energy content. It can be a selfie of inner sunshine, some photos of eating, drinking and having fun with friends. When your current boyfriend sees your beautiful life now, he will recall the happy time with you. It will bring back bad memories. Therefore, while improving yourself, show us positive energy.

Don't talk about feelings

After breaking up, many brothers are full of feelings, so if they are in contact with girls, they can't help but talk about their emotional needs and hope to make up.

When you get in touch again, treat him as an ordinary friend, talk about other life topics, treat yourself as an equal with him, say some opinions and ask him something you want to know. This is a "secondary attraction". This will make him feel that you have changed after the breakup, not the original you, and he will change his view of you.

4 control yourself

Don't think that if you have a new connection, you will have endless words with him. Sometimes things will go to extremes. The good way to save it is not to say too much, but to make yourself a secret and make him interested in you.

So after reconnecting, you should grasp your own rhythm. Plenty of time, you can talk to him about different topics every day. Once you're finished, he won't be interested in chatting with you next time. Be sure to pay attention. Control yourself and stop when it's time.

How to save your predecessor?

1, be sure to inquire about the recent situation of your predecessor.

If the time after the breakup is long enough, and you don't know if your ex has a new lover, then you must know the recent situation of your ex. Of course, there is no hope in your heart, because you will not only have the opportunity to reunite your predecessor with yourself and prove your position in your predecessor's heart, but also show that your predecessor is not the kind of person who will make fun of himself immediately after breaking up, which also adds an irresistible reason for you to reunite your predecessor with yourself. Therefore, this small situation needs to be understood to lay a good foundation for follow-up actions.

2. Wait for your predecessor where he appears.

Knowing the recent situation of your predecessor, you will certainly be familiar with the places he often goes recently, with what kind of people, when, where and what to do. At this time, you must not be timid. Try to feel what it felt like when you first met your ex. Seeing your predecessor in the waiting place, I believe he should have seen you, so you need to come forward generously and invite him to talk to you. At least this kind of behavior, in his eyes, first, he will think that you are brave, second, he will see that you are expressing your thoughts with actions, and third, after all, it is the first time you meet after breaking up, so you take the initiative to find him, so under normal circumstances, he will leave what he wants to do and communicate with you in depth. If the communication goes well, it's like returning to the state of just knowing, which is very beautiful.

3. Change yourself and make yourself better.

If all the above processes go smoothly, you must face up to yourself and don't be proud. We should sum up some bad behaviors in the past and avoid making these mistakes again in the future. At the same time, you should also improve yourself, not only in your studies, but also in all aspects of your life. It is best to be more and more beautiful and capable, and make your boyfriend proud of having a girlfriend like you.

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