What determines a woman's happiness index?

I haven't written such an article for a long time Today, I discussed with my friends what is a woman's happiness index. Why do some women feel very happy? Some women will feel unhappy, and some even lose confidence in life. Why is this? Before answering these questions, it is necessary for us to know what happiness is. What is the happiness index? Some psychologists say that happiness is people's subjective feeling of life satisfaction. Happiness index is a subjective index to measure the concrete degree of people's feelings. The concept of happiness index originated more than 30 years ago and was first put forward and put into practice by the King of Bhutan. People's happiness index can be a standard to measure people's happiness. Therefore, it can be seen that the measure of a woman's happiness is her happiness index. Some women always feel happy, indicating that her happiness index is high, and some women feel unhappy, indicating that her happiness index is low. So what is a woman's happiness index? And then what? In fact, it has something to do with every woman's real life. I remember a friend of mine said, "Life is not perfect, and there are regrets everywhere. This is the real life. Even if there are many regrets in life, if you can calmly examine yourself and then connect your life together, no matter ordinary or great, your life will be endowed with a lot of value, because it has been baptized by the soul, and there is no draft in life, and every step should be precious and fragrant. Life has not come to an end, and no one knows the true meaning of this choice. Walk on the road of your choice, let him walk through the Woods, cross the desert, or climb the mountain, and you will have the answer you have been pursuing all your life on this road. Take every step today, and take fewer detours tomorrow, so that life will be less stained and less regretful. Whether it is right or wrong, we must keep it in mind as a reference for tomorrow and as a navigation for life. " This is a classic saying. In fact, that is to say, no matter what we choose, as long as we think it is right, as long as it is our own choice, we must stick to it no matter what difficulties we encounter. When we look back, you will find that life is wonderful and precious. In fact, a person's happiness mainly depends on a state of mind. Why talk about women here is because every woman has to face marriage choices. Some women will feel that they have lost their lives and regret it. If they didn't get married, then find a good one and someone who will love themselves. But what is a good standard? In today's materialistic society, it is good to have money, but is it necessarily happy to have money? Does having money mean that your happiness index will be high? Not necessarily. A friend of mine once said something like this: "Before marriage, men were drivers and women were people waiting for cars on the roadside. Everyone wants to drive a BMW and Mercedes-Benz, but there are too few such luxury cars. Drive one once in a while, either the car is already occupied or people refuse to stop. Even if a car stops in front of you and a charming prince waves to you, do you dare to sit on it? What you want is to finish your life journey in this car, and he may just give you a lift. Smart women will wait for a car that suits them, take an ordinary car and drive slowly all the way, just to enjoy the scenery along the way. Suitable for her car, safe and comfortable. " Yes, it is very important for women to know themselves if they want to find their own happiness. At the very least, you should know what you want. Only when you have a goal can you find a goal in the direction of happiness. I remember a friend asked me, "Do you eat my leftovers?" I replied: No, she said unhappily: "Yes, in this materialistic and seductive society, how many men can have dinner with your wife?" If a man is willing to accompany you to dinner, prepare dinner for you and eat your leftovers, such a man is worth cherishing and relying on. Not to mention the men who eat your leftovers these days, there are not many men who go home to eat with their wives. " I comforted her like this: "Women only need to grasp one man in this life, and men should learn to grasp the whole world in this life." Actually, it's true. Although women hold up half the sky, women also work to earn money to support their families, but the risks and pressures that men bear are incomparable to women. Then, she found a man to do the test, and the man replied, "Yes, and he has eaten since he was a child." It's good to have leftovers now. I heard something like this: "For a person who lacks love, he suddenly sees someone selling love, so he can't wait to buy it, but he doesn't know if it suits him. "In fact, the essence of love is different, and the extension of love is definitely different. We should think and analyze problems with dialectical thinking in life, and we can't generalize. If a man loves you by eating your leftovers, it obviously simplifies the problem of love. A beggar is willing to eat your leftovers. Can you marry him? Of course, this is unreasonable. However, the following paragraph of her speech is wonderful: "To be a woman, you must make it look like a painting, which makes people want to go back and forth. Don't make clothes. If a man tries again and again, no one buys it. It's hard to try. It's 50% off when it's old. "Women must be self-reliant." Yes, being a woman really needs to be like painting, so that men can't live without you. However, unfortunately, many of us women don't understand this truth. In fact, only we know whether each of us is happy or not, and of course, so are women. Happiness is real. Whether there is happiness or not, of course, cannot be ignored. There must be, but happiness is definitely not that simple and superficial. Freshness and excitement are not happiness. It's just a kind of burning, doomed to be fleeting. Happiness is another thing, which is directly related to our own mind, but has nothing to do with all worldly and material things. Therefore, a woman's happiness index is her confidence. As the saying goes, confident women are the most beautiful, and confident women are the most attractive. Yes, as long as you are confident and believe in your choice, every woman is happy. Happiness is a feeling and a state of mind. As long as you feel happy, you will be happy. In this society full of material temptations, we should be more tolerant, less competitive, more caring and less demanding. This society is a world full of love and happiness. It can be seen that the factors that determine women's happiness index are mainly their own self-confidence and positive responsibility for life. Women with high self-confidence have high happiness index, while women with low self-confidence have low happiness index. Therefore, as long as women's happiness index is improved, women will feel happy. So, how to improve the happiness index of women? It seems that we should get into the habit of self-confidence at ordinary times. Of course, self-confidence is not an exaggeration, but a purpose. Evaluate yourself correctly, do what you can, don't aim too high, be an easy-to-satisfy person, and then happiness will always be around you. Some people may have different views, but it is also reasonable.