Allusions between relatives and friends

Interpretation: People who are far away from each other do not participate in the affairs of people who are close to each other.

Chinese name: Shu Buqin Pinyin Shbü jià n Q: and

Synonyms are far apart.

Meaning: People who are far away from each other do not participate in the affairs of people who are close to each other. The alienated cannot alienate the close.

Source: Guanzi Five Blessingg: "The husband does not double (betrayal). I won't kill you, not too cheap, not too long, not too close, not old, not small, not broken. All these eight things are also classics of ceremony. "

Allusion: During the Warring States Period, Wei Wenhou wanted to choose a suitable prime minister, called Li Ke, a fortune teller, to the palace to hear whether to choose Wei, and asked him to tell fortune and give him advice. Seeing his intention, Li Ke avoided talking about it and said, "I am humble and don't ask for respect, and I don't care about intimacy. As an outsider, I can't comment on this matter. " ?

Example: Biography of Han Poetry III: "I want to pose, so I called Li Ke to ask,' If I want to pose, I will become a child. God bless Yu Xiansheng. "Li Ke avoided the table and said to him,' As soon as I heard it, I humbly asked for no respect or relatives. I live outside, and I dare not live my life. "'