How does my boyfriend think my family is poor?

1. Don't boys like girls being poor? This question can't be answered for sure, otherwise it will be a bit biased, because everyone has different outlook on life and values, so some people will dislike others. Of course, people who are suitable for each other are more likely to communicate with each other, and the differences in family conditions between the two sides are also prone to contradictions. After all, because living conditions have an important impact on all aspects of human growth, people's thinking and behavior habits are easily different, leading to mutual incompatibility.

Second, family conditions are only external conditions. Whether the other person dislikes you depends on how much he loves you, whether he is tolerant enough, and whether he has the perseverance and responsibility to overcome the difficulties that other family members may dislike you. A person who really loves you, because your family is poor, will think about how to help you improve your family conditions and live a good life like him. Letting you live a happy life may be his lifelong pursuit, and he doesn't care whether your family conditions are good or bad. People who don't really love you will think that your family conditions are too poor, and the quality of life may be reduced after combining with you, and that your family is a burden to him.

Third, of course, we should not ignore the attitude of other members of his family. Many times, a boy may not care much about a girl's family conditions, but it is not wrong for such a boy to shrink back because of family opposition and his inability to resist. After all, the family's opinion is also good for him, which only shows that the boy is not responsible enough. In addition, even if boys don't care, girls should be mentally prepared. If you marry his family in the future, you may face the rejection of his family, or how to deal with contradictions in your future life, and whether you have enough perseverance to face these problems.

Fourth, when talking about the family conditions of both parties, it is important to think about whether he loves you enough. This is the key.