Why do people walk into marriage?

Many people get married, but everyone gets married for different reasons.

Basically, the reasons why a person chooses to enter marriage can be roughly divided into three categories.

0 1、

I really like it and want to spend the rest of my life together.

Although true love is not so easy to meet, in real life, there are always some people who are so lucky to find the one they really want among the people they meet.

I really like each other, and at the same time, the other person likes himself.

We all recognize each other, want to spend the present years with each other, want to face the ups and downs in the future together, and really want to stay with each other for a lifetime until the day when we are white-haired.

When two people like each other and want to have each other for life, then they will want to marry each other, really become a family, and then have the crystallization of love, which is of course normal.

Like a person, it will be like this, always want to see each other, but also hope that each other can participate in their own lives, and they can not miss anything from each other.

In this life, it has always been the dream of many people to meet and marry such a person.

After marriage, although each other will still encounter many problems, but the thought that it is the person they love, the thought of mutual affection, but each other will be willing to tolerate each other, willing to continue this friendship.

We are willing to enjoy the best scenery together and face all the storms together.

02、

Everyone else is married and thinks they should get married.

Everyone is just an independent self, but everyone also lives in the crowd.

In this case, many times, it is normal to care about other people's eyes because of the influence of people around you.

So at a certain stage, many people look at their peers around them and have already entered marriage and started having children. Deep down, they often have a feeling that they should get married quickly.

I think it's a little abnormal not to get married. I will feel that if I don't hurry up, I will fall behind many people, even unconsciously, and I will fall behind others directly.

With this mentality, many people's hearts will really start to become restless.

I can't wait to find someone to get married, so that I can also have a big banquet, take the oath by the other person's hand, and get a marriage certificate with the other person, so that I can get married and not be single.

As for how to get married, many people don't think so much when they choose to get married. At that time, all he wanted was to get married at once no matter what.

In life, many things, not all people, will have their own independent thinking. Many people just go with the flow, follow others and regard what the public values as what they value.

03、

Parents' pressure, in order to complete the family line.

The younger generation, and some people, are not so anxious about getting married.

Even though I am almost thirty years old, I am still alone, and I even enjoy being alone.

However, just because you are not in a hurry does not mean that your parents will have the same attitude.

For the parents' generation, the thought is not really so avant-garde, but rather conservative. I still think it's a big deal to find someone to get married and have children, so we should arrange it early.

In order to get their children married and have children, many parents will really do everything they can, all kinds of persecution, even urging, and even making some very irrational behaviors.

In this case, many young people simply can't stand the pressure from their parents. Even if they don't want to get married so much, they will start to waver in order to fulfill their parents, express their filial piety and not always face those pressures.

Then, I will quickly catch a person who is willing to marry myself, so that I can finish my marriage quickly.

I was urged to get married by my parents, and then I was urged to have children by my parents after I got married. I am always urged to go. I didn't think clearly. I got married. I have ushered in a brand-new life and need to be responsible for a family.