I counted the tarot cards, and asked them to give me spiritual guidance, hoping to know whether I should stick to it and bravely solve our direct problems! ! !

Two cards, 1, 4, show that you need help now and are eager to reflect on yourself. You are worried about whether you have given him too many constraints. You are also asking yourself whether it is worthwhile to change the value for him. After the change, you are still not yourself. The potential problem is your inner fear, fear of change, etc. What you should do now is to put down your airs and demands on him. You want too much in love. The emperor's position is not a superficial authority. If you want to sit firmly on the throne of the emperor, you must be kind to others. The result is not important. Tarot cards give the result of not changing yourself.