I want to ask about the marriage customs and religious beliefs of Mongolian Koreans.

Marriage system. Mongolian people have two marriage systems, namely, grabbing marriage and hiring marriage. Marriage robbery is a form of marriage in slave society. Before13rd century, most Mongolian society practiced the system of robbing marriage. For example, Genghis Khan's father wants to marry Artu and Mrs. Hoelun as soon as possible, which is a form of robbing marriage. Engagement marriage is a form of marriage in feudal society. After13rd century, Mongolians entered the feudal society, that is, the engagement system was generally implemented. But there are still remnants of the marriage robbery system. In the war between tribes, robbery or marriage robbery is still common.

Ask relatives. Before young men and women get engaged, the man wants to propose to the woman. Before the founding of New China, it was usually the parents of the man or the matchmaker entrusted to go to the woman's house to seek relatives and friends. They can get engaged if the woman agrees. According to the traditional Mongolian marriage custom, the man has to ask for relatives from the woman's house many times before he can get her consent. According to the first volume of the Secret History of Mongolia, Artu should lead his son Temujin (Genghis Khan) to the Dexue Zen House to find relatives. De Xuechan said: "It takes several times to give, so that you can get respect;" If you give it a few times, you will be looked down upon. " Later, a Mongolian proverb was formed: "Ask more expensive, ask less cheap. "After the relatives and friends reached an agreement, the man took Hada, milk wine and five forks or whole sheep to the woman's house to make a decision. The bride's family invited relatives and friends to accompany the guests to drink, indicating a formal engagement.

Bridal gift. The bride price given by the man's family to the woman's family after the young men and women are engaged is also called the bride price. The amount of dowry depends on the economic situation of the man's family. Most agricultural areas use gold and silver jewelry, cabinets and clothes as dowry; Pastoral areas often use cattle, horses, sheep and other livestock as dowry. Herdsmen regard "Nine" as an auspicious number, and the bride price begins with "Nine". From "September 19th" to "September 9th", it can't exceed 8 1 head at most, and "September 9th" means longevity. If poor herders don't have a dowry of nine animals, they can also choose an odd number less than nine, and take three, five or seven animals as a dowry, but they can't choose the number of spouses.

Dowry. The bride's family accompanied her daughter's wedding gift. Mongolians are very particular about dowry. How much dowry the man gives, the woman usually comes with a corresponding amount of dowry, and the woman marries more than the man gives to her family. Therefore, the Mongolian people have a saying: "You can afford a daughter-in-law but not a girl."

An auspicious day. One of Mongolian marriage customs. Also known as wedding day. Before liberation, after men and women got engaged, they should first ask the Lama for divination, choose an auspicious day and set a wedding date. After the auspicious day was set, the man's family sent matchmakers and relatives and friends to the woman's house to discuss marriage with their parents with gifts such as Hada, wine and candy. After the negotiation, the couple began to prepare for marriage. Generally speaking, cleaning the wedding room, or building new yurts, slaughtering cattle and sheep, preparing dowry, dowry and other wedding supplies, and notifying relatives and friends of both parties to come and congratulate.

Get married. One of Mongolian marriage customs. In the past, the Mongolian marriage was very grand, and the traditional marriage customs of the man outside the house and the woman inside were retained. Marriage is usually the day before the wedding. In a happy atmosphere, the groom wore a gorgeous Mongolian robe, a ribbon tied around his waist, a dome red tassel hat, high boots and a bow and arrow. The best man also wears holiday clothes. Ride horses together, carry floats, bring gifts, and go to the woman's house to get married. When the bride arrives at the woman's house, she will walk around the yurt first, and present gifts such as 1 "Touch the Door Sheep" to the woman's house. Then, the groom and the best man hold Hada and wine and propose a toast to the bride's parents and distant relatives one by one. After the ceremony, the married people sat down for dinner. In the evening, I arranged a mutton fork banquet. And held a traditional ceremony of seeking fame and asking Geng. The next morning, when the married people set off, the bride was carried on the float by her uncle or uncle. The groom will ride around the bride's float three times. Then, the bride-to-be and the bride-to-be leave together.

Wedding. Mongolians attach great importance to weddings. Although different regions have different forms, they are all grand and lively. The general wedding custom in pastoral areas is: when the bride and groom get married and return to their in-laws' house, they do not get off the bus and horses, but first go around the yurt three times. Then, the bride and groom both passed through two flaming bonfires and were welcomed by Vulcan people. It means the purity of love and the prosperity of new life. After the bride and groom enter the yurt, they first worship the Buddha and offer sacrifices to the stove, and then meet their parents and relatives. After the ceremony, comb the bride's hair. Get dressed, get dressed, and wait for the wedding reception to start. Wedding banquets are generally decorated with sheep backs or whole sheep mats, and all kinds of milk and sweets are available. At the wedding reception, the groom carries a silver pot and the bride carries a silver bowl, toasting the elders, relatives and friends one by one. The boys held the silver cup high and drank to their heart's content; The girls sang loudly with Ma Touqin. Wedding banquets often last for two or three days before relatives and friends leave. And the woman's farewell will accompany the bride for one to three days. Sometimes, the bride's mother will see her off, and stay for more than ten days. When breaking up, the mother and daughter hugged each other and cried, indicating that they were reluctant to part.

Sacrificing fire is an important ceremony in Mongolian wedding. Although the Mongolian people in different places worship fire in different forms. But it is an integral part of the wedding. After the bride marries the groom, she must first hold a fire ceremony. The bride and groom have to go through two fires and be baptized by fire, so that their love will be more pure and faithful, their lives will be happy and they will grow old together. The fire worship ceremony of Dorbod Mongols is unique. There was a fire in the yard when the bride entered her in-laws' house. The bride and groom should sprinkle milk wine into the fire together and bow down and kowtow. The master of ceremonies stood by reciting Ode to Fire: flint discovered by Genghis Khan the Great, kindling preserved by Hoelun's mother, offering sacrifices with white hada and milk wine, and national kindling from ancient times to the present. Please pray for the bride and groom! Shenhuo is the witness of your marriage; Please kowtow to the bride and groom! Buddha's light carries on the family line for you.

Seek fame and ask Geng. One of the procedures of Mongolian marriage. Ask the bride's name. Also known as seeking the end. This is an interesting joke. On the night when the bride stays at the woman's house, she will arrange a five-fork or all-sheep banquet in the bride's boudoir, also called a famous banquet. The bride and groom, the bride and her brothers and sisters, all of the same generation, attended the banquet. At the banquet, everyone played tricks on the groom, forcing him to kneel down or ask the bride's milk name or milk name. The bride is shy and silent, or deliberately does not answer. The bride's sister-in-law and sisters did not answer, deliberately stalling for time. At this time, the man's Acura and the woman's sister-in-law answered each other and sang the right song until the woman said her real name, and the fame feast came to an end. Seeking fame and asking Geng is actually an intelligence contest that shows the wisdom of Mongolian young men and women.

Bad hat. Also known as catching hats. In the past, on the way to get married, Mongolians wanted to get home first and become winners. To this end, the two sides will have a hat contest on the way. Usually the groom tries his best to grab the bride's hat, pick it on the whip, or throw it on the ground, forcing the groom to dismount and pick it up, thus affecting his walking speed. Married people cover for each other and don't let the farewell party grab the hat. Along the way, you chased each other and played with each other, with a strong flavor of grassland life.

Mongols believed in Shamanism at first, and later in Lamaism.

Generally, weddings held in South Korea are a combination of "female marriage" and "male marriage", a combination of Chinese wedding ceremony and traditional Korean wedding ceremony.

On the wedding day, the groom, accompanied by the best man, went to the bride's house with a "wedding letter". After the groom and his party arrived at the bride's house, the mother-in-law accepted the letter of appointment. Then, the groom accepts the "big table" accompanied by the bride's men. In addition to all kinds of delicious food, there are two things necessary on the "big dining table": one is whole chicken with red pepper or red dates, and the other is a bowl of rice with three eggs buried. Eggs are a necessity for the groom, but only two are allowed, and the other is reserved for the bride. Before the food on the "big table" is enjoyed by everyone, some things are packaged separately and sent to the groom's parents and relatives to let them know the bride's hospitality to the groom. After the groom finished eating, the bride bid farewell to her parents and accompanied the groom to the groom's house. When the bride and her party arrived at the groom's house, they were arranged in a room alone and received a "big meal" accompanied by the bridesmaid. Leave all the dishes on the "big table" and take them back when you go back to your parents' house. In the evening, the groom's house will hold an entertainment party. The next morning, a "bride's gift" was held. The groom sits with relatives of the groom's family. Brides toast one by one according to age and distance, and give gifts, usually cloth or clothes. On the second or third day after marriage, the bride and groom go back to their parents' home to visit relatives and hold a banquet. At this point, the marriage is all over.

Both parties to the bride price can negotiate! Give more to those with good family circumstances and less to those with bad family circumstances!

Going to the bride's house to get married!

Finally, I wish the couple an early birth and a long life together!

Religious beliefs include Christianity and Confucianism.