What are the mind-reading methods?

What are the ways to read people's minds? People can't avoid interacting with others all their lives, but we all know that people's hearts are very complicated. I've compiled some information about how to read people's minds. Let's have a look.

What are the ways to read people's minds? 1 1. Look at their psychological state from their inner desires.

Psychology is a branch of psychology specially studied by scholars, which is called desire psychology. Because Freud, a famous psychologist, believes that human beings are animals full of desire and driven by desire, and there is a certain desire motive behind any human behavior, which makes it possible to see a person's psychological outlook through the expression of desire. This is why, from ancient times to the present, people who have made achievements must restrain their desires and constantly cultivate themselves in order to be invincible and achieve final success.

"Desire psychology, judge people by their bones" is a slogan of desire psychology research. This means that in our daily life, we should pay more attention to the expression of desire behind other people's behavior. In addition, from the perspective of developmental psychology, people do not have the psychological quality developed in the process of growth, and often seek satisfaction in later life, and then become a desire and constantly seek satisfaction. For example, some children who lack mother's care in childhood will subconsciously seek "mother-like care" in their adult relationships. This lack of emotion will become a trait in his bones and a psychological desire.

2. Look at their psychological state from their inner fears.

Everyone has his own psychological boundary. Beyond this boundary, people will be afraid and have fear. So looking at a person's inner world, we can not only see what he needs, what he can do, but also what he can't do and what he is afraid of doing. For example, when drawing a map, we should not only find several key points, but also find and draw its boundary line, which can be used not only to understand others, but also to know and improve ourselves, because it is difficult to know ourselves, but more importantly, even if we try to figure out the psychological outlook of others, we can really achieve better ourselves and take care of others' needs.

Colleague Zhu Xiao is particularly afraid of the dark. He is afraid to walk alone at night, let alone turn off the lights and sleep. So when he sleeps alone, he often sleeps with the light on. A big man can't tell others this, because I know psychology. He also told me about it. Later, I recommended him to a friend's psychological counseling room for comprehensive counseling. After analysis, I realized that Zhu Xiao's parents were about seven or eight years old. He was alone at home, and it thundered in the middle of the night. Suddenly, the power went out. A bird broke the window and crashed in the house. It couldn't fly out, which frightened Zhu Xiao. From then on, he dared not turn off the lights and sleep, nor did he dare to touch the dark. Therefore, from the perspective of developmental psychology, his fear comes from the process of growing up and also develops to his psychological boundary.

Conclusion: The above are two points shared by the author about knowing oneself and others with psychological knowledge. First, look at his psychological state from his inner desires; Second, look at their psychological state from their inner fears. To understand people's hearts, we need to understand our own hearts more, interpret ourselves more in the above two ways, pay attention to observing others' hearts, consider others' feelings, and create a better interpersonal environment for ourselves.

What are the ways to read people's minds? 2 1, those who ignore waste, see if they can go back.

To test a person, you can exile him, alienate him and ruin his future, so as to observe whether he will commit betrayal and disobedience, and then you will know whether he is reliable.

2, pet people, not arrogant.

To test a person who is deeply trusted and reused by yourself, you can deliberately make him unprepared and make him think that he is completely trusted. See if he will be arrogant and let himself go, and you will know whether he is reliable.

3. People who pass out are not afraid to watch.

To test a person with low status, we can put pressure on him and take the method of intimidation to see whether he is not afraid of powerful people or chooses to bow his head and admit defeat, so as to know whether he has the responsibility and can be reused.

People who have a sense of honor will not boast.

To test a person's wealth, we can praise his great achievements and observe whether he is modest and prudent or ambitious, so as to know whether his mind is calm and his future is stable, and then make good use of it.

What are the ways to read people's minds? The old man Guiguzi can be said to be a real winner in life, civilized at home and abroad. For more than 2,000 years, strategists revered him as the ancestor, fortune tellers revered him as the ancestor, strategists revered him as the ancestor, famous artists revered him as the ancestor, and Taoism revered him as the ancestor of Wang Chan.

Gui Guzi's master is Lao Zi, who is known as the founder of world dialectics, the father of world philosophy and the top ten writers in the world. His wisdom in life is evident and worth learning.

Guiguzi's most powerful thing is to read people's hearts, and his research on people's hearts can be said to be the pinnacle.

The ability to read people is really powerful, otherwise it is impossible to teach students who are famous all over the world.

So the knowledge and wisdom of his old man's house are worth learning. For example, the smarter people are, the more they know how to read people's minds in these four ways!

Method 1: Three rounds of touching people.

"Touching" means trying to figure out, that is, trying to figure out a person and trying to figure out a person's heart on three wheels.

If you want to read a person's mind quickly, this way is the most ingenious', then after three rounds of drinking, you can easily reveal his true thoughts. Speaking the truth after drinking is this principle.

Smart people often judge you by these small details when you are relaxed.

Method 2: judging by harvest, you can know people.

You should judge whether a person is an ungrateful villain or a friend who can share weal and woe with you. Only through the exchange of interests can we judge, not the usual greetings or casual acquaintances.

In other words, we have to prove whether a person is really good or not, and we can see clearly when the benefits are distributed, especially the partners around us. Only through this kind of thing can we see his essence clearly, but many times we are unwilling to admit it.

Only when the interests of the other party are really involved can we see what kind of person the other party is. We should also remember that those who plan your interests or frame you should never associate, and we should also remember the past and the future.

Method 3: Listen to the neighbors and distinguish.

If you want to read people's minds and get to know them better, you naturally have to get along with them more. As the saying goes, "people will see each other for a long time", but in this process, you can listen to your neighbors and distinguish them in this way.

In other words, listen to the comments of this person's friends or neighbors, but be sure to distinguish between true and false.

This sentence of Guiguzi tells us that this is only a frame of reference, not so absolute, and can be used as a reference for differentiation.

Method 4: Observe its color and distinguish its behavior.

This sentence means observing a person's mind and trying to figure out a person's heart can "observe his color and distinguish his actions", that is, pay attention to his expression changes and distinguish his behavior.

Whether the change of this person's face is consistent with his environment or words, and whether there is any concealment.

At the same time, we should pay attention to whether his behavior is consistent with what he said and whether he can truly achieve the unity of knowledge and action.

Smart people will inadvertently see through a person and try to figure out his heart.

They use these methods to distinguish people and know people, so as to further decide whether to make friends with this person or to associate with people with interests. So it is necessary to learn these life wisdom of Guiguzi.