Tarot decoding four-element card array

As you said in the title, you are anxious and helpless about the deadlock. You have some ideas about your career planning, and even to some extent, the career goals you once had can be said to be more ambitious than ordinary people. At the same time, you are often too ambitious to recognize the situation clearly and easily indulge in unrealistic fantasies.

The burning blood gradually became silent under the cold blow of reality, leaving only a few confused sparks wandering in the coke; Vilen, once full of vitality, has withered because it has not been irrigated by sunlight for a long time. You feel as if weeds are creeping in your heart, and there is a tendency to cover everything. They grow, scratch and gather wildly in your heart, and at the same time pave the way for you to open up a vast grassland, just waiting for the fire to rekindle-usher in rebirth.

In the eyes of your family, your present situation is not bad for them, but it is also leisurely and stable. I can finally breathe a sigh of relief for you. They object to learning that you are eager to break the imprisonment and open up new territory. After all, you have only been working for one year, and your accumulated experience and the contacts you should cultivate are very weak, and you don't have enough plump wings to fly freely. But in your opinion, that's not the case at all. You have never been a person who is content with the status quo, and you don't want to fall into a static quagmire. Even if you know that more struggle will only get you deeper and deeper, your already difficult breathing will get weaker and weaker, and you would rather choose fearless change. Under the double pressure of family members' incomprehension and unsatisfied expectations, you feel like a little ant crawling on the endless loess. You can't see the future and don't know where to go, but a gust of wind can roll you up and blow you away from your dreams.

In your whole deck, whether it's Holy Grail IV, Sun IV or Staff IV, it has a strong directive significance in interpersonal relationships, which shows that in your career, contacts are extremely lacking.

Even in your opinion, everyone around you is like a slacker, and it seems that no one can buzz with you, but in fact, the fact is by no means what you stubbornly believe. The reason why you can't establish an effective cooperative relationship with the people around you is not only because you lack an understanding and tolerant heart (admittedly, the troubles caused by the present situation weaken your original peaceful mind), but more importantly, you show your personal feelings too clearly.

Your impetuousness is like a lit cigarette, which scatters foggy gray harmful substances around you. For you, it is a poison that is not conducive to physical and mental health, and it hurts others twice. No wonder others will keep their distance from you, let alone communicate well and establish a harmonious and friendly relationship. It's not that they can't understand your anxiety about changing the status quo. Who hasn't had a charming dream, imagining that he can wait to the top of the pyramid and sit and watch the clouds roll and relax? But compared with you, they compromise with reality faster and bury their past ambitions in their hearts. Some people choose to give up and turn their ambitions into a sigh at night. Some people choose to continue watering. They have a strong heart and a suitable mask. They paralyze misfortune by compromise, endure the footsteps of pouring, and feed on the flesh and blood of others and their own innocence. Finally, lush trees are called secular success.

And you just lack such responsibility and consciousness.

Please allow me to be blunt. It's time to get out of Taoyuan township, learn some skills and hone your survival ability.

It's not that you lack the strength to execute and firm belief. Just as the chariot indicates, all you need is to burn the fire in your heart into the lifeless wilderness, so that the dazzling fire can reflect the boundless sky and guide your direction. This fire cannot be abrupt or fleeting. The supreme significance of its existence is that it can inject a tonic into your long-term struggle and unremitting persistence, and it is by no means a temporary impulse.

When you get along with others, remember to put away your impatience and get in touch with how to show a natural and friendly smile. You can spit out hypocritical behavior, but you can't show it on your face. The more perfect a person's mask is, the more amazing the weight he can bear. You may feel like a golden chopstick, shining and much better than other people's rotten wood, but in fact, you have to wear off the length you are proud of and keep the length that others think is mediocre. Although it is painful and unwilling, it is a necessary process for everyone who thinks he is a pair of golden chopsticks. Only when the edges and corners are polished sharply and the parts that are considered to be essentially shiny are painted with decadent colors, will you have the opportunity to become a truly powerful person, peel off the old coating, and the essential colors will shine and be immortal.

Regarding the future, I suggest you don't think too much for the time being. Both your personal ability and the manpower behind you are far from enough to support you to fly freely. However, this doesn't mean that you can't change yourself in the present situation, gradually improve others' views on you, strengthen your ability, and handle people and things more smoothly. For a long time, you will constantly change yourself, and the holy grail of reversal means that you can get rid of the negative situation and embark on a journey with a positive new attitude. In this process, the God of Opportunity will naturally come to you. It is not so much that he finally began to care about you as that you attracted him.

If you have any questions, please keep asking questions.

The above is my answer, I hope it will help you.