How to deal with this situation?

Judging from the title alone, Love Can Wait is obviously a traditional novel about classical love. It is hard to imagine that for new and new human beings, what feelings need to be waited, fermented, brewed and tasted, even if it is not as decisive as "love you and kill you", "youth is so cool that it doesn't hurt" is also the extreme of playing naive; For people in the besieged city, "This Love Can Stay" seems to be somewhat divorced from reality. Compared with The New Marriage Age and Don't Be Emotional, This Love Can Stay should only exist in the sky and rarely be heard in Taoyuan. However, love in the eyes of old people is like this. Just for one night's eye contact 30 years ago, Daosheng went down the mountain again when he was approaching the age of knowing his destiny, just to see Lan Ying who had already married someone else's wife. Although he was beaten, framed and exiled for her, she survived. However, she is still at Master Zhao's house where all the bad things have been done-she is very unhappy. Daosheng found that the only thing he missed was Lan Ying, Miss Lu who secretly loved him when he played. Now, after wandering for half my life, I just want to win a smile from my former bosom friend Zhan Yan. This kind of feelings, until time is running out, until there is no real desire, can never be so simple. Just like Mr. Shen Congwen's famous work Border Town, the story of "I can't wait for this" seems to have no clear time and place. In this small town like Phoenix, Taoist temples, temples, back gardens, mountains, all the places where stories take place seem to be isolated from the world, and social unrest has not directly impacted them; Big monks, missionaries, old grandsons, small parties, Taoist students and Lan Ying, these kind residents are so convinced that goodness and beauty will last forever, and it is easy for people to think of Cui Cui, Raul, old boatman and Tuan Zong in Border Town. Medical treatment, divination, charity, Buddha worship and dragon boat race also have unique rural customs. The difference is that the appearance of missionaries and the interpretation of love make the love of Christ in the novel and the Taoist thought of "the unity of man and nature" mutually confirm, giving the works more divinity. In Border Town, beauty is religion, and everything endowed by nature presents an intoxicating beauty of love and desire. In I am Desperate, Daosheng tries to understand the true meaning of love from Christ while saving the missionary's disease. Although, in the eyes of missionaries, God loves all people, only in this way can human souls be saved and reborn after death. However, in China, the Christian spirit of fraternity still met with acclimatization-just like the missionary himself was infected with a disease. Shen Tao still can't save his enemy, Master Zhao. After all, China's philosophy of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism has no precedent of loving his enemies, and at most, he just lets his opponents "put down their butcher knives and become buddhas". At the same time, the abstinence of Buddhism and Taoism did not work, and Daosheng could not stop thinking of Lan Ying until his death. Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote in Fortress Besieged, "The love of the elderly is like an old house on fire, which is hopeless." This book is the best example. Juvenile affairs, although innocent, rarely last, and it is even more difficult to last forever in the changes of the world. Although casual greeting "Oh, are you there?" Zhang Ailing's "She" once supported the "girl" to retain a beautiful yearning for life after vicissitudes of life, and dare not give up everything she has, even disgusting things, to win the final happiness in life. Only Daosheng, whose time was running out, dared to break the custom and go to buddhist nun to marry their souls when he dreamed that Lan Ying's soul invited him to meet him. In China, love is the unity of spirit and flesh, not love for all people. In this ancient oriental love story, Mr. Francois Cheng perfectly explained China's philosophy of loving beauty. In his works, love and beauty exist forever, not because of the barrier between war and the wicked, but because of the constant pursuit of love and beauty, the human soul can be immortal. At the same time, the oriental outlook on life is like a landscape painting, with a long history and endless life. Since the gradual disappearance of Beijing writers in 1930s, this kind of writing has become a natural phenomenon-brisk, calm, delicate and rhythmic. There seems to be no room for it in the rapidly modernizing capital. At the same time, anxiety, depression, irritability and loneliness are increasing day by day. The writing gymnastics in this book should be a good medicine to treat mental trauma.