Love is not equal to possession, and people who are too persistent often make people unable to love.

Recently, I watched a movie "The Goddess of Mercy". The plot can be described by the word "black girl". The main content doesn't want to spoil too much, but it is definitely a wonderful brain-burning drama, and what impressed me deeply is the women's understanding of love in the play. The following content involves spoilers. If you mind, you can read it after watching the movie.

There are several details. Every time Miss Tang Jiasan attends a party such as a dinner party, she will wear uniform clothes. For example, the dinner at the beginning of the exhibition; Also, when I was going to attend the Lins' funeral, I prepared three black dresses. Even if Downing doesn't like this kind of dress, she still has to listen to her mother and have to wear it. By that time, Mrs. Tang took control of her family.

What impressed me deeply was the love between Lin Pian and Kyle. Judging from the whole drama, Lin Pian and Kyle can be said to have true feelings, and she really loves Kyle. Many people say that Lin has withheld Kyle's things, and she only has possession of Kyle, not true love. However, Lin Pianpian's diary can show her sincerity. In the end, she got rid of Tang Zhen and returned Kyle's things to their original owners, hoping to fulfill her favorite person and his dream of restoring freedom.

However, loving someone really doesn't mean having him. On the contrary, excessive possession can be boring. Kyle's attitude towards Lin Pianpian in the play is a contradiction between face and heart. On the surface, maro loves Lin Pianpian very much and married her in Ghost (although there are other factors), but she is full of resentment at heart. Even when he regained his freedom, he did not forget his original control.

This also reminds me of a classmate with princess disease, Gemini D. Her control over her boyfriend is almost morbid, and even the people in the dormitory can't see it.

She asked her boyfriend to give him a place every day, all the account passwords were made public, and the chat content was watched by friends at any time, vividly saying "you don't have to be reasonable"; When her boyfriend wants to play games, she will pinch him and say, "What can you do besides playing games?" " ; When her boyfriend watches anime, she will say "it's all children's things"; Shopping or online shopping, she asked her boyfriend to pay. ...

Once after a dormitory dinner, she was going to go shopping with her boyfriend, who came to pick her up specially, and she began to ask her boyfriend to pay for the dormitory dinner. A meal for six people, a few hundred dollars, is still a big expense for a college student. Roommate: I'm sorry. She said she would change money for her at night. She also plausibly said, "How can I say that he shouldn't pay for this meal, man? Is it wrong to be in charge of the woman's meal? " Today, he complained that he had no money or something, and I scolded him. If you don't give me money, I won't accept it. This is what he should do. "

My boyfriend makes money at work (it is estimated that he can spend too much money), but he deliberately "visits" him through his shop without class, and all the female colleagues who work together can't talk to him normally. After work, they will definitely be scolded and choked up and say, "I see you have a good cooperation today!" " We once told Xiao D that her boyfriend is honest and doesn't need to watch it so closely. Let him play and relax, okay?

First, she retorted to us and said, "Men just want to watch prison. You see so much cheating. If you give him freedom and spare money, he will cheat! " After that, she probably realized that she was too strong and embarrassed, and said to us, "I am easily insecure, and women are easily insecure." I am the most insecure one. " So I can't be too strict. I told him clearly that you want to be my boyfriend, and I have the final say! Otherwise I won't love you. "

A good word: I don't love you if I don't care. Excessive possessiveness in love is like kidnapping in the name of love. The consequences are obvious. Later, I began to quarrel frequently, and the breakup was also vigorous. In the boys' working restaurant, the two quarreled again. Little D said directly, "You have a problem with me now, so let's break up!" The boy stared at her, nodded and said, "OK". Little D blushed and said, "You are right!" Then he ran out of the restaurant. The boy has no intention of kicking him out at all. ...

Today's tarot card is the inversion of the emperor, and this card also indicates the discomfort of the controlled person. I hope everyone in love can understand that true love is not to lock your lover around. But when you are beautiful, when your love keeps giving people positive energy, even if you kick ta, ta doesn't want to leave you.

Daily divination is as follows ▼

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Go ahead actively and try actively, and you will have good luck.

Don't give up, keep trying, and you will have good luck.

C- See the truth clearly and be practical, and you will have good luck.