How to overcome embarrassment?

Embarrassment means that we suddenly feel uncomfortable, embarrassed and in a dilemma. When we come to a new environment, we interview, date, strike up a conversation, have dinner with friends, have business talks, give speeches and so on. We may encounter embarrassment. Overcoming embarrassment can free us from discomfort, and the specific methods are as follows:

First, when you come to a new environment, you should actively integrate into the environment and take the initiative to settle things if you say something wrong.

Because you are not familiar with the cultural atmosphere and interpersonal relationship in the new environment, you may make inappropriate actions. For example, in the workplace, saying a taboo word and not following the work habits of the team may make us fall into an embarrassing mood and situation. At this time, once found, I sincerely apologize and explain my original intention immediately, indicating that there is no malice, which can resolve embarrassing emotions. Show sincerity and make the new environment more acceptable to you.

Second, in interviews, public speeches, business negotiations and other occasions. You are in a formal situation where you are evaluated and learn to change the subject.

When a problem stumbles us, when the unexpected events at the scene disrupt our own pace, the scene is once cold or chaotic, which will make us very embarrassed. At this time, you should improvise and transfer the problems or things that are not good for you to the places that are good for you, so that the other party's attention will not stare at your embarrassment.

Third, in daily interpersonal communication, while considering others, we should also express our own ideas.

Someone has done a survey, and 90% of the friction between people is caused by no sense of boundary. Too considerate of others, never advocating their own interests and attitudes, when others do too many things without knowing it, it will make us very embarrassed. Let others know what you think, let others realize what impact this matter has had on you, make it clear and communicate sincerely, and you can instantly resolve the embarrassment.

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