The circle of friends can be seen for three days, which is the beginning of self-enclosure! -Psychological theory

They say that people who can see in a circle of friends for three days are particularly dramatic people.

Why should the circle of friends be visible for three days? Do you only have three days to accept yourself?

Strangers see you ten times and I see you for three days. Why did you add me?

Is your circle of friends visible for three days?

A stranger can still look at ten photos. As a friend, I can only see them for three days. Friends are not as good as strangers.

You can see it in a circle of friends in three days, which is likely to cause intangible harm to people who care about you and want to know you to some extent.

In fact, many times, the person who really cares about you, if you don't look for him, he doesn't dare to look for you at all, for fear of disturbing you.

Since the opening of WeChat, the display time of friends circle can be set, and many people set friends circle to display only for three days or half a year.

Few friends can be seen for a year or more, unless they don't like hair bands.

In the Internet age, we rely more and more on the circle of friends to get to know a person, guess a person's preferences, check a person's current situation and try to figure out a person's taste. .......................................................................................................................

As more and more people close their circle of friends, the circle of friends can see for three days, and the circle of friends can see the group. I can't help thinking of a question: Do we still have friends?

Why are more and more people's circle of friends visible for three days!

Father has always been a relatively silent person, and we seldom talk. The next morning, when I was about to leave, my father stopped me.

Girl, why can't I see your circle of friends? Did you black dad?

Then I opened my circle of friends with my mobile phone and asked me what happened and why I couldn't see your photo.

I just want to know more about you and pay more attention to your life. You have worked hard outside alone. Besides going home, dad can only see your photos and trends from your circle of friends.

Friends only show their circle of friends in the last three days. In the eyes of people who care about you, just a few words are like a pair of scissors, cutting everything between you.

Why delete the circle of friends?

Maybe it's because I hate myself every second I wake up.

It may be because it was originally sent to someone, but it turned out to be unnecessary.

Maybe it's because after that moment, I think this expression is particularly redundant.

Sometimes I want to get attention and send a circle of friends to find a sense of existence, but after I send it, I find that there is no sense of existence at all and I don't like comments. It seems better to delete it.

To put it bluntly, it all comes from care.

You care too much about what others say, too much about how you look in others' hearts, too much about people and things in the past, and too much about yourself who was not good enough in the past.

Some people delete their circle of friends cleanly, hide their imperfections and leave a good image to the outside world. But some people have friends like mountains. Alice doesn't mind showing her immature past to the public and then trying to face the future.

In contrast, isn't it more practical to live in the present?

More and more people's circle of friends is only visible for three days, and they don't even send friends.

People who are very important to you can't know your life and mood only through your circle of friends.

For unimportant people, the other person may not care whether you send a circle of friends, what content you send, and how long you send it.

Therefore, whether your circle of friends is displayed for three days, six months or all, it really doesn't matter that much.

If the circle of friends makes you feel uncomfortable, you can block all the people you don't like, or remove them from your circle of friends, instead of blocking those who really care about you with the "circle of friends visible for three days".

Psychoanalysis: Considering that many friends have similar puzzles, today I specially sorted out N reasons for establishing a circle of friends for three days. I hope the boat of friendship between friends will be as strong as ever.

1, the circle of friends three days ago is not worthy of me today.

2, I can see it for three days because I want to share my current mood and not be dug up.

3. What does it have to do with three days? People who care about you will silently watch your every move.

I don't care about you. He didn't bother to watch it for three years.

Many people think that three days will alienate their friends, but a really good relationship doesn't need to rely on a circle of friends.

Let's analyze, those who have established a circle of friends for three days can be roughly divided into the following three types:

First, privacy (inherent fear)

This kind of person will feel that if I set my circle of friends to be all visible, it will feel like being naked.

Second, anxiety (need to be concerned, brush the sense of existence)

The most obvious feature of such people is their desire for attention and fear of being seen through.

Third, conformity psychology (conformity psychology)

This kind of person wants to try it when he sees that everyone is scheduled to be visible for three days.

I saw a good content posted by a friend in my circle of friends. I haven't paid attention to his dynamics for a long time. I deliberately opened his head and saw that it was only "visible for three days". I saw many other friends do the same, and then I thought about it myself. Try this function.

Please don't create countless imaginary enemies for your circle of friends, and please don't put on a thick layer of armor in this indifferent society, because in this world, no one will often turn over your circle of friends except those who care about you, so let's open our own world, shall we?

Did you set it to be visible for only three days?

What is the reason for setting?

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