Gender Emotion: Don't listen to what men say, but watch what men do.

Whether a woman is in love or married, one of the questions she wants to know most, or one of her favorite questions, is "Do you love me or not?"

The woman who asks such questions is not clever. On the one hand, you can't get the most real answer at all, on the other hand, it may make men tired and suspicious.

Love should be sweet and beautiful. For women, love is like falling into a honey pot, and even the exhaled air is sweet.

But when a man's love for you fades away, your feelings will change, from the bitterness of the tip of the tongue to the apex of the heart, which will make you feel sad and full of twists and turns.

Is there a way to test feelings in this world, and is there such a panacea?

Don't tell me there is.

Yao Yao is going to get married soon, and her fiance promised her that her name will be written on the property certificate after marriage, and the economic power of the family will be put in her hands.

Yao Yao was still very happy when her fiance said this, but she didn't know whether she really loved her or just perfunctory her.

So she went to her sister Yan Shu and wanted Yan Shu to analyze whether her fiance loved her.

Shu Yanming knows the meaning of white. She decided to talk to Yao Yao about two things she experienced first.

Yan Shu's sister lives at home, and she fell in love when she was young. She has always had a good relationship with her boyfriend and got along well. It wasn't long before she talked about marriage.

At that time, her boyfriend told her that she had bought the house and added her name to the real estate license when she got married.

In fact, she doesn't think much about the house, but since her boyfriend said so, she will keep it in mind and think that her boyfriend's initiative to mention this is a sign of love for her.

I thought my husband would take himself to add his name after marriage, but she waited for three or four months and her husband never mentioned it.

She was a little sad, but after thinking about it, maybe her husband forgot, so she simply mentioned it.

After listening to this, the husband replied: How do you remember this? Do you have to remember the house for a lifetime without a name?

She waved her hand and said, of course not. I don't care much about these things. It's just that you said you would add my name before you got married, and now you're not going. are you sure you meant it？

Husband said: I don't care why you say that. Even though I said it, you still care so much. You're afraid you didn't marry me for the house?

Hearing her husband say this made her feel a little wronged: you said it originally, but now you don't do it, and your words don't count.

My husband didn't give in at all and said, it doesn't matter if I say it, even if I don't say it, you can say it later. If I didn't have this house, I guess you wouldn't marry me.

Her husband's words made her not know what to say, so she simply didn't mention it.

From then on, no matter what promises her husband made to her, she never kept them, so she no longer expected her husband to keep his word, as long as she could spend her life flatly.

The next thing is about Yan Shu and her husband.

Yan Shu and her husband have been in love for five years, and her husband has a successful career. Her husband said that when they were about to get married, they would buy her a car, and her name would be written on the real estate certificate. She has time to see her favorite apartment and car.

When her husband said this, Yan Shu was very happy. She thinks her husband said this because he loves himself.

Therefore, unable to hide his happiness, Yan Shu told his parents and girlfriend.

My parents are quite calm about this matter. They said that since her husband said so, Yan Shu should go and see it when she has time.

While the best friend is not calm, after hearing Yan Shu say that finish, she took Yan Shu and went to the car to look at the house.

Yan Shu said, "Why are you in such a hurry? He just told me that you can go now. This makes me look like a gold digger. " .

My best friend gave her a dirty look and said, he said, you go. There is nothing now, just listen to him. What are you happy about? You should be very happy when you get it.

Yan Shu thinks her best friend is a little too impatient. Her best friend said to her: You didn't ask him for it, he gave it to you on his own initiative. You were right to accept it. If you go to see it and he doesn't buy it for you, then this person really has no credit.

Before Yan Shu could say anything, her best friend took her to see the house and car. After a day's observation, Yan Shu sent her favorite house and car information to her husband.

In the evening, my husband told Yan Shu to set a time to watch it together and wait until he decided to buy it.

Seeing that her husband had no superfluous expression, Yan Shu felt that he really loved her, and his heart was even happier. She also told her best friend that her husband kept his promise.

A few months later, the house and car really belonged to Yan Shu. Although she doesn't care much about these things, her husband gave them to her and she felt very happy.

Yan Shu said to Yao Yao: If your fiance really wants to put your name on the real estate license, or even give you financial power, then there will be practical actions. Wait, don't worry about what he said.

After a while, Yao Yao told Yan Shu that her fiance had written her name on the real estate license and would give her the salary card after marriage. To this end, Yan Shu is still very happy for Yao Yao.

In fact, if a man really wants to give a woman something, he won't let her bring it up, but will take the initiative to honor this promise.

If a man makes a promise but fails to keep it, if a woman mentions it, he will say that women worship money.

Many women are easily deceived, because they only listen to men's sweet words and good words, which is good. A man can win a woman's heart by talking with his mouth, so he has nothing to pay.

This kind of man just wants you to accept his sweet words, but doesn't really ask for what he promises.

If you really ask him to promise, he will still dislike you.

Therefore, to really judge whether a man loves you, you must not just listen to what he says, but what he does.

After all, a man who really loves you can't wait to give you the whole world. How can he just talk and not do it?

Love is not simply spoken, but also needs to be combined with words and deeds. Love is turning words into actions.

Remember, men will cherish their big investment, and putting words into action is the best investment.

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