99% of marriages in the world have to be run-in, but you are not allowed to make it! -Gender psychology

We are more and more fond of saying, "We can make do with it!"

Gradually, we lost our edge and drifted with the mediocre life.

I ordered a bad takeaway to fill my stomach first to cope with the eating of this meal.

I rented an unsatisfied house, in order to save rent and make it easy to go to work, I barely lived.

I bought a skirt that didn't fit me and spent all my money. It's a pity to abandon it.

There is a shameless customer in the stall, let us make money from others and gnash our teeth.

But the only thing I can do is to find someone to marry.

One is a perfect marriage, one is a make-do marriage, and the third is an unbearable marriage.

Because the perfection of marriage is restricted by many factors, marriage is not about choosing advanced, pushing model workers and evaluating three good ones. This is not two good people happy in the same bed.

Few people in China have the courage. Most people make do with it, and then find some self-deceiving excuses to comfort themselves, for the sake of the elderly and children.

Tianhou is always clear, and will never mix adult affairs with children, and will never be willing to wronged himself because of children.

Although Faye Wong and Li were separated, they never slandered or tore them up. Faye Wong joined hands again, and Li Dafang sent his blessing.

Because the "coat" of the family is complete, but the child's mind is full of holes!

Many times, "get through it together" is just because things haven't reached the point where we can't stand it and haven't touched the bottom line where we can accept it.

Marriage is a contractual relationship based on love. Without love, marriage can easily become an empty shell.

Marriage is not to build a visible form for others, what is needed is emotional content with flesh and blood.

Therefore, marrying someone you don't love is not only immoral, but also painful for each other.

If a marriage is maintained only by children, it will lose its value of existence!

Don't feel great just because your children don't get divorced.

Don't ruin your children for not getting divorced!

But life can't be "piecemeal". A fragmented life always starts in a hurry and ends in a panic.

Dealing with this kind of thing is like boiling frogs in warm water. Every little thing you think is unimportant will eventually make the temperature higher and higher and make you weaker and weaker.

You choose to make do, you choose not to be happy.

I admit that all marriages in this world need running-in.

But running-in is not easy.

Running-in is a shoe that feels a little tight when you just put it on. As long as the shoe last is suitable, it will be loose, fast and comfortable to wear.

Make do with, that is, put the bracelet on the thigh abruptly, strangled the blood, tied it in a daze, and finally mass-produced dissatisfied housewife love rat.

Every time I persuade people not to make do with marriage, I am often questioned and accused: "It's easy to say, you are a husband and child, and you don't know the emptiness and loneliness of single dog."

I know that no matter how many inspirational chicken soup we bloggers write to cheer up single women, we still can't escape from the bottom of the reality contempt chain.

And many people, if they don't accept the reality, will continue!

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About the author: Teacher Xiaoxian

National second-level psychological counselor, Tarot soothsayer, planetary energy healer, freelance writer and trainer.

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