How can we solve the problem of finding a wife in rural areas?

In rural areas, the idea of son preference has spread to every household. Giving birth to a daughter is a shame, and giving birth to a boy is a glorious ancestor. Girls just do farm work, do housework and serve men, while boys are the inheritance of incense and the foundation of the family. Many rural couples either learn the sex of the fetus from the hospital B-ultrasound at all costs after the woman is pregnant, or divine men and women through fortune telling. Once it is confirmed that the fetus in the woman's womb is a woman, they will abort it. This behavior has caused a serious imbalance between men and women in rural areas, with more men than women. Now that this generation of children has reached the age of marriage, many rural men are facing the problem of finding wives.

How to solve the problem of marrying a wife, of course, first of all, we need to change the idea of son preference, and both boys and girls need to be treated fairly. From now on, it will take rural men about 20 years to get a wife.

For the status quo, what needs to be changed is the mentality that men are superior to women. In the rural concept, women can't go out, do laundry and cook every day, and can't accept new things. At home, they can only abide by women's morality, respect their husbands and children. However, nowadays rural girls are no longer women with traditional ideas. They are eager to be respected, eager to be treated equally, and refuse to be tools for childbearing and refuse to be slaves. Therefore, men and their families need to respect women and give them a good living environment.

Improve the quality of men. Marriage is rarely ordered by parents nowadays. After women's status is improved, they can marry and fall in love freely. A woman has the right to choose her partner and to examine whether her future is worth relying on. However, rural men generally have a strong sense of male chauvinism, and because of their different education levels, many men's moral quality is worrying, and domestic violence and other behaviors occur frequently in rural areas. It is impossible for a woman to marry a man with low quality for her future. Therefore, it is essential to improve men's moral quality, whether they are married or married.

Reduce the demand for bride price. Getting married and starting a family now, just like selling a daughter, requires the man to have a car and a house, and to prepare a high bride price, ranging from hundreds of thousands to hundreds of thousands, which is undoubtedly unbearable for poor families. Without advocating high bride price, the nature of marriage has become trading and buying and selling. If this concept does not change, it means that it is difficult for poor men to get married, and the only way to change this situation is that the parents of the woman's family are not only positioned on the economic basis for the girl's future, but marrying into a rich family is equivalent to escaping into an empty door and the marriage will not be happy.

Dear friends, what do you think of the phenomenon that most rural men are single? Do you have any suggestions to change this situation?