Solve tarot cards (lover tree)

Let's look at your first card array first.

It can be said that the two cards representing you, the reverse Star Coin II and the reverse Holy Grail IX, are in sharp contrast with the two cards representing him, the reverse Sword II and the forward scepter IV. On the one hand, it is cold and depressing ice blue, and on the other hand, it is gradually warming orange tone.

As you can see, even if you can show relief that everything is over in front of your family or friends who care about you, in fact, only you know best that at those moments when you think of him, negative emotions will still surge, and you have not really come out. The harm you have done to him, as well as the mistakes you made in the past because you were not rational enough, are like wounds that will not heal, and pus flows in your heart. Mucus with bacteria makes you forget the ability of self-healing, so you can only try to comfort yourself and pretend to let it go, and try to ignore it. And he is indifferent to your feelings, and he knows that he owes you too much, not only financially but also emotionally. But these two are not what he can make up now. On the one hand, he didn't show enough sincerity in money to make up for the debt, and thought he didn't have the spare capacity and mood to pay it back. On the other hand, the calm life brought by the scepter 4 has a certain weight, which makes him not want to affect his present marriage for the past.

Therefore, judging from these four cards, instead of letting this endless sadness last forever and bringing you more unnecessary pain and regret, it is objectively difficult to change the past, it is better to let go completely freely. His family's attitude is kind, but it is not recommended that you invest too much expectation. After all, if you want to repay the arrears, you still have to rely on his own strength. If he doesn't realize it, it's hard to pay you back. Mentally speaking, he is in arrears rather than caring. From his point of view, it's like a trophy that you cheated out of, and it already belongs to him. In this sense, he is really not the object of good character. Reverse Holy Grail 9 implies that continuing to pester will bring you more disappointment and hatred, so it is meaningless for you to waste your feelings on him.

Let's look at the second card array.

Your friend's emotional attitude is very irrational recently. When she calms down, it will be illogical to think for herself. It is no wonder that she put the other person in a position that she cares too much about in her heart, and the words and deeds of the other person can easily cause her to associate too much and ponder uneasily. With such an uneasy mood, obviously there is no way to put your feelings into it. On the other hand, the man also feels that his position is not relaxed and happy, and he is aware of her sensitivity, but he doesn't want to talk about it. Such a dilemma made him feel very uncomfortable. If we keep this burden on the two of us, it is easy to let the feelings that could have been happy go up in flames.

Judging from the future situation, the reversal of the Holy Grail 10 implies that it will take some time for the two to continue this slightly embarrassing state. It's not that he doesn't like her, but that he doesn't know how to approach her and how to deal with her subtle emotional changes flexibly.

It is suggested that the woman take the initiative to slow down and talk more about some spiritual topics and views on life when communicating with him. Spiritual topics tend to look for the * * * sound between two people, rather than staying at the material and practical level for too long. Create a brisk atmosphere, so that both sides can better understand each other's sincerity and goodwill, rather than hinder emotional communication.

The above is my answer, I hope it will help you.

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