What are the wedding customs in Nanjing?

Nanjing's wedding is one of the most complicated customs in Nanjing, with the deepest brand of the times. "Rites of the Week" stipulates that the marriage procedure should go through "six rites":

0? 2? 0? 2? 0? One is winning the lottery. The man asked the matchmaker to send a bride price to the woman's house to show his intention of proposing marriage. Goose must be used at the beginning of the bride price, which means "men want to marry and women want to marry". You should choose your position at the right time like a goose. The bride price is gradually increasing, which means acacia, Yuanyang, Jiuzipu (or ink), double stones, five-color silk, harmony and happiness. Whether the woman's family accepts gifts or not is a sign that marriage is allowed or not allowed.

0? 2? 0? 2? 0? The second is to ask the name. After the bride's family accepts the bride price and allows marriage, it is convenient for the man to ask the woman's name and age (date of birth). When the man takes back the woman's horoscope, he will go to divination to decide whether to get married or not.

0? 2? 0? 2? 0? The third is Najib. The groom's side