How to judge whether a man really loves you?

A woman should judge whether a man really loves you, not by how many sentences he says, but by how many things he does that love you. Whether a man loves you or not, don't just listen with your ears, look with your eyes and feel with your heart.

Because sweet words can confuse people's ears, casual actions can't fool people's eyes, and getting along day after day can expose people's sincerity or hypocrisy. These details will tell you whether a man really loves you.

One: take the initiative to protect you when you encounter difficulties.

Zhang Ailing said: Men are naturally protective, sympathetic to the weak and love jade. Women's shyness and tears are definitely the magic weapon to make men tremble.

If a beloved woman is in trouble, a man must not stand by and sit idly by, but subconsciously cherish her, actively accompany her and gently protect her.

In Zhang Ailing's novel Love in a Fallen City, during the Republic of China, Bai Liusu lived in her parents' home after her divorce.

She met Fan Liuyuan through the matchmaker, Mrs. Xu, and they both liked each other.

Fan Liuyuan took her to the city where she lived, put her in a house in the suburbs, hired a maid named Ali for her, and then went abroad by boat alone.

The next day, there were wars everywhere. Li was frightened and ran around with her child in her arms. Mrs. Xu, who lives nearby, can't get through on the phone. They only care about running for their lives. Where can they care about tassel's safety?

Tasso struggled to get up from the crumbling ground where the glass slag was scattered, and finally found Ali, who was shocked by the ground, and helped her take refuge in the house.

The stray bullets outside didn't stop flying. Just when the tassel completely collapsed, Fan Liuyuan suddenly drove a military truck to the door, took the tassel to a relatively stable place to take refuge, and then stayed with her to spend the war.

When tassel is in trouble and everyone around her abandons her in danger, only this man who loves her deeply and cares about her is willing to risk his life and come to her side without hesitation to save her in hot water.

This is the great power brought by the faith of love.

When a man loves a woman deeply, he always thinks about her safety and can't bear to hurt her.

When the beloved you encounter danger or difficulties, men will go all out to come to your side and firmly protect and guard you, instead of staying out and turning a blind eye.

A man is no longer afraid of the immediate difficulties, just because he has only that deep love in his eyes and only the belief in love in his heart.

Therefore, when the man you love comes to your side in time when you are in trouble and actively protects you, he must love you very much and care about you very much. You should cherish the man in front of you and don't disappoint his gentleness.

Two: when you are sad, comfort you gently.

Zhou said: love is love without reason, and it is tolerance without preconditions.

After a man loves you, he must want to see you smile like a flower, not when you are sad.

When you are sad and unhappy, he will feel sorry for you and feel sorry for you, so he can't help but comfort you and relieve your negative emotions.

In the TV series "The Last Romance", Zhu Suosuo was fostered by his parents at his uncle's house, and his aunt married his uncle with the children she had with her ex-husband.

Jusso and his aunt's cousin grew up together. This cousin who is not related to her has always admired her, but Zhu Suosuo only regards him as a brother.

Lock lock fell in love with a man. He has been hiding his true identity. Lock lock was very sad when he learned the truth.

Cousin not only didn't accuse her of being ignorant, but also gently comforted her and told her that since he lied to you, I wish I had known earlier. It doesn't matter.

He was afraid that she would be hit and hurt by this relationship, so he tried to appease her emotions and wanted her to get rid of this unbearable past as soon as possible and regain happiness.

After falling in love with you, men will care about your emotions and sincerely hope that you will be happy.

When you weep sadly, a man's heart will tremble. He knows what has happened and can't change the status quo. Therefore, the only thing he can do is to comfort you patiently.

If a man does not love a woman, it is impossible to be so careful, patient and gentle. He won't care so much about her emotions, patiently enlighten her, and gently comfort her.

I don't care because I don't love it. If you don't care about someone, how can you care about and comfort her?

If a man comforts you gently when you are sad, you should know that that kind of comfort actually contains his tenderness for you.

If you love, please love deeply. If you don't love, please go away.

Don't disappoint each other's sincerity and infatuation, and don't hurt each other's fiery heart, because once you fall in love, no matter how strong you are, you will become extremely fragile.

Three: Firmly support you when you make a decision.

Zhang Ailing once said: Because I have loved, I am merciful. Because you know, you are tolerant.

After a man falls in love with a woman, he will care about her inner feelings, try to understand her, be considerate of her and respect her thoughts and decisions.

In the TV series "Children of Qiao Family", Qiao Yicheng fell in love with Ye and finally married her.

Only after he got married did he know that Xiao Lang had a pair of parents who preferred sons to daughters. Without telling Xiao Lang, they asked for 10% money to subsidize their son, buy him a house and get married.

Xiao Lang grew up in such a family environment and naturally knew his parents' thoughts and behaviors. In order to get rid of the exploitation and oppression of her family, she decided to take the TOEFL test and study abroad.

Ten percent of people silently supported her decision, although she was worried that her younger brother and sister could not go abroad for further study with Xiao Lang.

Ten percent personally took her to the airport, and gave her a packet of money wrapped in an envelope before leaving, telling her to take care.

No matter economically or spiritually, Yicheng expressed her firm support and encouragement to her beloved woman.

Although Yicheng was very reluctant to leave Xiao Lang, he understood Xiao Lang's situation and her desire to change her destiny, so he chose to respect her decision.

Only when a man falls in love with a woman will he think from her perspective and try his best to understand her thoughts and difficulties.

After fully understanding her thoughts, I will naturally choose to respect every decision in her life.

Even in the process of gradual acceptance, he may put forward his own different opinions to women, but he only takes his own suggestions as reference answers, not standard answers.

Men will eventually leave the decision to women and respect her ideas.

When a man firmly supports you and silently helps you when you make a decision, it is out of love for you. Only those who love you will understand your thoughts from the heart and respect your decision.

The answer to whether a man really loves you lies in the details of life.

If a man actively protects you when you are in trouble, gently comforts you when you are sad, and firmly supports you when you make a decision, it is because he loves you deeply.

It is because he loves you that men will do everything for you and be good to you.

Lin once said: The biggest regret in life is not to miss the best person, but to miss the person who wants to be nice to you.

If you want not to leave too many regrets in love, please cherish the person who tries to be nice to you. Maybe he loves you in a clumsy way, but his love for you is extremely sincere and deep.