What should I do if I accidentally discover the secret of the other half in my marriage?

First of all, you should judge how this secret will affect your feelings; Why did Ta keep this secret from you? Is it because Ta can't trust you completely? Maybe there is something wrong with your relationship, and then you should take corresponding measures from the beginning. But you can't choose to turn a blind eye, because it will bury a "hidden danger" in your heart. Sooner or later, the secret will be told in another extreme form, and it may really be irreparable.

The existence of marriage requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, and the efforts here are more emotional and energetic. If the other person hides secrets from you because he can't trust you, then you should consider your own reasons, why Ta doesn't trust you, and whether your actions make him feel unsafe.

At this time, you should talk to ta calmly, tell Ta what you think, dispel the concerns in Ta's mind, and nip the problem in the bud.

If it's an emotional problem, it's even more important to talk to Ta, and you can't give up your marriage just because you are angry. Look at Ta's attitude towards this "secret". If his first thought is about your feelings, it means that your marriage can still be saved, and you can give him a chance to change. After all, people will be dominated by desires, and sometimes they can't believe what they do, and they can't kill them with a stick.

Therefore, both husband and wife should actively communicate. Many times, the fuse of quarrel is just a simple question, because of mutual suspicion and distrust, the relationship finally deteriorates step by step, and finally develops to an irreparable level, and even goes their separate ways.