The three principles of marriage choice contained in the "hexagrams" make you have a happy marriage!

Friends who have read Zhouyi should have the impression that there are many words describing the living conditions of the ancients in Zhouyi scriptures, such as agriculture, hunting, war, sacrifice, marriage, making friends, doing business and so on. Through these descriptions, we can vividly imagine the life scenes of our ancestors, and we can also appreciate the traditional classical culture of taste of china.

Yilin in the south of the Yangtze River found that several hexagrams in Zhouyi only involved marriage, such as immortal, constant, family, gradual, noble beauty, great country and Wei, and each hexagram described different aspects of emotional marriage. This paper mainly discusses the principle of mate selection in the hexagrams of Wan, and how our ancestors viewed the issue of mate selection.

The "Wan" hexagram is shown in the following figure:

The hexagrams and haiku are as follows:

Divination: strong woman, don't bring women.

"Xun" said: hey, when you meet, you are soft. Don't take a woman, and don't grow up with her.

(omitted later)

The meaning of "Wan" divination is that Yin divination meets other five Yang divinations on the sixth day of the sixth lunar month. The hexagrams in Wan are quite special. The bottom hexagram is the first hexagram, and the other five hexagrams are all Yang hexagrams. It's like a woman meeting five men. This is too strong and inappropriate.

So he said: strong woman, don't marry a woman, don't grow up. It means: if a woman is too strong (meets too many men), she is not suitable to marry this woman, and it is difficult to maintain her relationship for a long time.

Three truths contained in the divination of the Book of Heaven. Judging from this sentence, Jiangnan Yilin can be extended to several meanings:

1, men and women must be polite and upright. The author of Zhouyi advocates that when men and women meet, they must be courteous, upright and honest, and stick to the right path. Let's think about all kinds of mistresses, mistresses and online appointments that are popular now ... The parties don't think this is taking advantage, but it is actually against heaven and is detrimental to their fortune and luck.

"strong woman" and "hey" have two meanings. One is that women's personality is too strong, and the other is that women behave inappropriately, are too playboy and have too many men. As a man, you should choose this kind of woman carefully; For women, we should take this divination as a warning, be gentle with others, and don't get involved in unhealthy feelings, so as not to affect our happiness.

3. Be cautious when a man is stubborn and romantic. The Book of Changes was written in a patriarchal society, and men were superior to women, so the author emphasized that "strong women don't marry women". In our modern society, men and women have equal rights, so Jiangnan Yilin should add a sentence: "Strong men don't marry men". In other words, if a man's personality is too strong and stubborn, and there are too many romantic women to associate with him, he should also choose carefully as a woman.