Buddha enlighten and solve! ! !

The essence of being a man is to be filial to parents, to serve teachers, to be kind and not to kill, and to cultivate ten virtues (if you do, you will be blessed). According to the tradition of Confucianism in China, it is: benevolence, righteousness, reason, wisdom and faith (if you do it, you will have personality-the qualification to be a man). Filial piety is the first of all virtues, and filial piety to adoptive parents is a person's greatest kindness and the most important, so don't forget it. Buddhism also says that it is not necessary to go far away to burn incense to honor parents at home. Parents are two bodhisattvas, and filial piety to parents means filial piety to bodhisattvas.

But especially, from the sea of suffering-my understanding is that only by awakening the truth can we be extraordinary, break the mystery, be enlightened and get rid of the sea of suffering in the six divisions of the wheel of karma. See through, put it down, feel at ease, follow fate.

My views are for reference only. You can go back first and reassure your parents that you will meet again in your personal marriage, and you will not climb with fate. If you study Buddhism deeply, your wisdom will naturally grow slowly.

Namo amit Ba