If you make friends with noble people, you will lose your poverty first.

If you make friends with noble people, you will lose your poverty first.

People who put difficulties on their faces and talk about them all day long always think of Bai Piao, and they all have a kind of "poverty"

Don't say noble people, even ordinary people want to stay away from them.

To change, we must first get rid of "poverty".

1, don't cry poor

Even if you are really poor, don't just cry for sympathy from others. No one will really sympathize with you and help you except your relatives. Your poverty can only be digested internally, and the external performance is always I can, I can.

Instead of making people who want to help you feel that you are a burden.

Step 2 keep it mysterious

Especially in the workplace, if your family situation is not good, don't let others know easily, including your leader.

If you say that you want the leaders to take special care of you, you are all wet.

At first, your leader may symbolically say that you should pay attention to your health and rest, or give you a day off.

But after a long time, ta will find you more troublesome.

Your personal problems involve too much time and energy. Ta will not reuse you, and will even squeeze you harder.

Because ta knows that you can't do without this job, the bottom line can be very low. If ta makes things difficult for you and takes it out on you, you won't give up easily and it will be very useful. You should have thunder in your chest, look like a lake, and control the impulse to complain to others.

People are not sure about your strength and dare not bully you easily. On the contrary, they will get more help.

3. Exchange ideas with values.

Before asking for help, think about what value you can provide.

Most people will unconsciously show a low profile when asking for help.

And ignore the value you can create for each other.

This value can be realized now, and it can also be a pie in the future. It can be visible interest value, invisible emotional value, trust value and so on.

If you don't have this concept, it will give people a strong sense of demand and everyone wants to stay away from you.