If a man sees that his ex is not doing well (what does it feel like to see his ex-wife after divorce)

The divorce rate in China is very high now. On average, 3 out of every 10 couples are facing marriage breakdown. After divorce, some of these couples will choose to spend the rest of their lives alone, while others will meet new people and start a new family. However, whether the life after divorce is happy or not is only known by the parties themselves. How do men feel when they see that their ex-wife has a bad life after divorce? I interviewed four people, and they all said so.

Mr. He: My ex-wife betrayed me, and I am very happy because she has a bad life.

My ex-wife and I have been divorced for five years. Although I reorganized my family after a long time, my hatred for her has not diminished at all. At first, I traveled a lot, neglected my family, and rarely stayed at home, but my heart was at home. I worked so hard for this family, but she ignored our children and went out to fool around with other men. My mother found out and put all the blame on me, which is obvious. Finally, she divorced through legal means, because she was the wrong party and gave her little property. She is a housewife and has no job in recent years, so the child was awarded to me. After the divorce, she came several times and said she wanted to see the children, but she never saw them again. I heard that this is the second marriage. If she has a bad life, I will be very happy. Who let her do something wrong to me is karma.

Mr. Hu: Although I have nothing to do with her, I will still be embarrassed.

I met my ex-wife on a blind date. We got married without getting along very well. After two years of marriage, we have no children. The more you get along with each other, the more you feel different in personality, and there are many contradictions at ordinary times. We finally got divorced. Although it is a peaceful divorce, it is also a husband-and-wife relationship. If she has a bad life, I think I will sigh, too. Although she has no feelings, I still hope she can live a good life, meet someone who loves her and take good care of her.

Mr. Yin: One day, husband and wife get married for a hundred days. Please help if you can.

My ex-wife and I just divorced last year. We have been married for 20 years. Many people ask me why my child is so old and wants a divorce when he goes to college. In fact, we divorced because the children were older and went to college. Our marriage came to an end when the child was ten years old, but we didn't want to affect the child, so we agreed to wait until the child went to college before divorcing. I think my ex-wife has been very kind to me, my children and my family in recent years. She is a housewife and takes care of our family wholeheartedly. We used to love each other very much, but somehow, I feel that the gap between my ex-wife and me is getting bigger and bigger, and I have nothing to say. My ex-wife feels the same way. She said that what I needed was someone who could match me. She doesn't know anything, but being around me has dragged me down. We didn't have an affair. My ex-wife is really a good woman, so when I divorced, I gave most of my savings and my house to my ex-wife, hoping that she would have a good life in the future. If she finds me in trouble in the future, I will try my best to help her.

Mr. Li: I was sorry for her. I will make it up to her.

My ex-wife and I will divorce, which is entirely my own fault. It was my fault that broke her heart. She is still breastfeeding, so she went to court to appeal for divorce. The child was awarded to her. I really know I was wrong, but she has made up her mind not to forgive me. All the mistakes are my fault, but I feel sorry for her. In the future, I will make it up to her. Whether she is taken care of by herself or remarried, I will give her all the help she needs.

In fact, your lifestyle after divorce is meaningless to those who have become ex-wives, and it has nothing to do with your ex-wife. Let go of the past. If you are destined to be friends again, help each other when necessary. If you can't be friends, the best result is to stay away from Jianghu and seek happiness.