Were my brother and I enemies in our previous lives?

Some people say that father and son were enemies in previous lives. Sometimes I really doubt whether this statement is very reasonable. Why build a wall in the middle when people are closest to each other? And people on both sides of the wall can really be indifferent. The answer is: not the enemy, but the way of caring is different.

My brother left a message on WeChat, "Sister, I came back too late last night. Dad locked the door and I couldn't get in. I had to sit alone in the car for more than an hour and then drive back to Wuhan overnight. "

I remember going to my dad's house a few nights ago. I opened the door with my own key. At that time, I asked, "Dad, why don't you lock the door at night?" Dad also replied, "Your brother sometimes comes back at night and tells me not to lock the door."

My mother left early. At ordinary times, only my father and an elder sister with ear disease live at home. I don't know why my father locked the door again that day. I can only reply to my brother and say, "If you want to come back next time, call your father in advance."

Two days later, I went to my father's house. By the way, I was talking about that day. Dad looked a little angry and said nothing for a long time. After a long time, he said, "Everyone is at the door. Why can't you tell me to open the door Is it so difficult to make a phone call? "

I had to say, "In the middle of the night, he was afraid that calling would disturb you and affect your rest." I thought this was over. I didn't expect dad to be unhappy. Every time you go, you complain to me that your brother has been gone for so long without calling. People don't call when they go back. Seriously, there are many such things. I don't know how to talk among them. They are all family members. Why is communication so difficult? But in fact, I also know that these are only superficial, but I still care about my brother from my father's heart. So I think the relationship between them is not as bad as we thought.