Gender psychology: can the feeling that women are strong and men are weak really not last long?

Nowadays, many women, especially smart and capable women, often turn themselves into godmothers and want to teach their husbands the kind of people she wants.

At this time, you will find that your man is retreating, escaping, or resisting.

But will he change?

A really good man will have that kind of self-confidence and sense of value in his heart. He refuses to be taught, but keeps silent. You will find that he is disobedient and can muddle along and continue to teach.

People who change as soon as they are taught have no self-confidence and ambition. In the end, women suffer, because this man will become like this if you pinch him like this, and he will become like that if you pinch him like that. You will still feel very unhappy, and then you will change your mind and think that it is best for men to conquer and transform me. That's my the only thrill.

The news that Cao Jun and Lyric broke up made many people feel sorry, which led to a topic-can the relationship between a strong woman and a weak man last long?

In the entertainment circle, there are many couples stars who are strong in women and weak in men and finally break up.

For example, He Fan has many works, but his popularity is much lower than that of Fan.

When the relationship was first announced, many people were not optimistic about their relationship. After all kinds of storms, the two broke up.

There are many such examples, such as Yang Mi and Hawick Lau, He Jie and He, Wu Junru and Europe, Ma Yili and students.

From this perspective, it is really difficult to last.

When Xiao Wei was in high school, he talked about a girlfriend. This girl is good-looking, has a good family and studies well. She is a typical schoolmaster.

Although Xiao Wei is good-looking, his study is only above average, and his family is average.

After the college entrance examination, the girl was admitted to a good university, and Xiao Wei was barely admitted to an ordinary university in this city, so they became long-distance lovers.

The girls are very friendly to Xiao Wei. She often goes to Xiao Wei during holidays, which makes her friends in Xiao Wei very envious.

At the end of graduation, the girl found a good company internship in this city. Because of her good working ability, the company promised her to become a full member in advance after graduation.

Xiao Wei is very happy for his girlfriend, but considering that his internship company is not as good as his girlfriend's and his salary is not as high as his girlfriend's, he has a sense of inferiority.

Immersed in this inferiority complex all day, Xiao Wei finally broke up with his girlfriend.

In fact, Xiao Wei is also an excellent boy, but when faced with a better girlfriend, his Excellence is not so good.

In the case of Xiao Wei and his girlfriend, it is precisely because the girl is stronger than Xiao Wei that Xiao Wei feels inferior and wants to break up with his girlfriend.

Moreover, the feeling that women are strong and men are weak will also make men feel that they have no face, because some women are capable and strong.

No matter what you face, let men bow their heads first.

Especially in front of friends, women are still so strong that if they don't give men a little face, men will feel that their self-esteem has been hurt and women don't respect him at all.

After a long time, men will think that they have no value in their feelings, and finally they will end this relationship by breaking up or cheating.

If a woman is too strong, it will make men feel no sense of belonging. Some women make their own decisions and don't ask men's opinions, which makes men feel uncomfortable.

Stay in this relationship for a long time, and men will want to get rid of it.

The reason why women are strong and men are weak cannot last long is because they lack the same language.

In feelings, communication between two people is very important, but sometimes because of different levels, people and things are different, they will lack the same language.

Feelings that have nothing to say are easily broken. Men don't want to communicate with women, and finally they can only choose to break up.

It is true that there are many strong women and weak men who can't last long, but in the entertainment circle, there are actually husband and wife stars who live in harmony with strong women and weak men.

Stephy and Li Chengxuan are typical examples. They were on a program recently, and the way they got along with each other made many viewers envy them.

Four years later, Stephy made a soup for Li Chengxuan, and Li Chengxuan immediately showed her joy and praised her.

When she was putting on makeup, Li Chengxuan prepared the mirror and fed her.

Li Chengxuan made her angry, so she accompanied her to get a manicure to make amends, and made various conversations to observe her reaction carefully.

Their lifestyle makes many netizens suspect that they are not married at all, just shooting idol dramas.

Stephy is a careless and powerful actress in the entertainment circle, but she has a good personality. She turned from a singer to an actress by her own efforts.

Li Chengxuan made her debut as a group singer in South Korea, and later came to China to develop.

Since she married Qiwei, Li Chengxuan gradually faded out of the entertainment circle, and Qiwei had to take care of her children at home to make money.

Many netizens commented that Li Chengxuan is a "small white face" and a "soft rice", but he still bears the pressure and takes good care of his family.

He has been Stephy's encouragement, and he is very grateful to her. He is very gentle, considerate and delicate to Stephy.

Stephy is also living more and more confidently in the sense of security that Li Chengxuan gives her from her family.

The affection between them, though more accommodating by Li Chengxuan, is complementary, which makes this relationship develop so well.

Although many women's strong feelings have no results, if you can know what you want and have the courage and ability to stick to it, what can't last long?

Feelings are always equal. Only when couples are willing to work together and experience hardships and tests together, will the real victory finally come, regardless of which side is strong or weak.

Love is part of order.

Only when we have insight into these orders can love succeed.

Usually, women follow men, and men serve women, so love can flow naturally.

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Author: Miss Xiaoxian

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