? Six obstacles that life has crossed

People from birth to maturity to aging and then to death, so dozens of spring and autumn. That is, a few "hurdles" passed in the blink of an eye. Talk about 1 and dreams before the age of 20. When people are separated from their mothers, it takes at least 14 and 15 years to get familiar with the world at first, but being familiar with the world at first does not mean maturity. Many ideas are too romantic, similar to fairy tales. So this season I often dream that I can fly and that I am someone else's idol. The topics discussed between classmates and friends are often divorced from reality, Wan Li. In this flower season, everything is floating and colorful. Talk about ideals after 2.20 years old. 20 years old is the first threshold to enter the ranks of adults. The previous colorful dreams gradually faded away, and began to mature in the face of reality, and began to have a goal in life. But the ambition of 20 years old is to swallow mountains and rivers, which is somewhat unrealistic. So we say that people grow up at the age of 20, but it definitely doesn't mean they are mature. In short, at the age of 20, I have a goal to trudge forward, and I have lost many dreamy colors. Talking about responsibility at the age of 3.30. It may be too early for people to stand at the age of 30 now, but at the age of 30, they are mature people, and at least have established their own life coordinates and basic points. At this stage, the world will put a lot of burdens on your shoulders. You have no escape and no choice but to carry them forward. Therefore, there is a heavy thing in life-responsibility, and the connotation of life is also enriched. When you get married, you need a love nest to live in. When your children are born, you must work hard to support them. When your parents are old, you should do your duty to support them. In addition, the workload has increased ... all these responsibilities have to be completed by you at the age of 30, and no one can replace you. At this time, all words and deeds become so true. 4, 40 years old to talk about career. After 40 years of ditch, people have reached the zenith. At this time, people with will have a successful career, and even mediocre people have begun to have solid savings. People's physiology and psychology have matured, and everything has their own opinions. All the burdens have been reduced because of the passage of time. Maybe the parents have passed away and the children are about to stand on their own feet. At this time, people usually take a long breath like climbing a high slope. However, looking back, I found that I lived too little for myself a few years ago, so developing myself became the main theme of this stage.

At the age of 5 or 50, I began to talk about experience. The ancients said, "You know your destiny at fifty." It's time for people to settle down. What should be won is won, and what should be eliminated is eliminated Then, the winner will get the scenery of respect, and the elimination will have to taste the sadness of being alone. Sun: No matter the survival of the fittest, we will understand the reasons for success or failure, but the overall situation has been set and it is difficult to change. The summary of the survival of the fittest has become valuable experience and wealth for future generations. Let's talk about the past after 6.60 years old. Aging is an irresistible natural law of human beings. When people are old, they are out of their depth. Even if they want to make great achievements, it is difficult to spread their wings. At this moment, the winner can enjoy the fruits of his own creation, but the loser has to drink his own bitter wine alone. Heroes don't mention the courage of the year, wasting their lives and looking back. The traces carved by years in himself and his heart cannot be erased. The sunset is too short, and there are not many days in the future, so we no longer think about the future glory, but recycling the past scenery or bumps can also activate the potential of life and maintain vigorous vitality. Life has passed like this, no matter brilliant or ordinary, it has to pass one by one. Of course, how to succeed depends on yourself, and everything around your life can't be separated from giving up properly. Inspirational people carefully share: giving up is a leap. When you are willing to give up everything and live a simple and peaceful life, the hurdle of your life will pass!