When people encounter unfair things. . . . Do you want to put up with others all your life? Really psychological endurance is not enough, too tired, always passive.

Of course, it's not necessary. If you are depressed to a certain extent, it will naturally explode. Everyone is the same, but there are many ways to explode. Anger is the most superficial. Others, such as self-abuse, venting, and changing jobs, are never angry but more extreme. But it must be noted that the outbreak is certain, but don't touch the legal and moral bottom line. It's normal for a relationship to break up.

No one has enough psychological endurance, and strength and fragility are always separated by a piece of paper. Now I am worried only because of immaturity, but also because of my depression and pain. In fact, it is not the product of unfairness, but because of my immaturity. This is the only process of spiritual growth. What we have to do now is to live hard and seriously, but we often don't have the courage to face it, often decadent, retrogressive, occasionally degenerate, indulgent, lonely, helpless, unfair, depressed and explosive. This is inevitable and meaningful, not a waste of time. Remember, when you choose to escape, you are accompanied by guilt and introspection. Don't abandon your nature and self.

These are not methods, just words. Only you can find your own way, even if you can't, these troubles will naturally disappear when you are mature rather than numb.

The last and most crucial sentence:

Only by thinking and trying to really understand these can we really do it.

Above, I hope it helps.