The hottest sentence on 2020 WeChat, Buddhism!

First, life is for happiness, not for care; Feelings are used to cherish, not to test; Money is used for service, not for measurement; Trust is for precipitation, not for challenge.

Second, there are not so many poems and distant places in reality, but more frustrations and helplessness. Don't complain when you are idle, learn to be down-to-earth and learn to enjoy it.

Third, the thorns on the rose are not to hurt others, but to protect themselves. It is good to want to be a good person, but there is absolutely no need to turn yourself into a "bad good person" who always helps others, so that you will be hurt constantly.

Fourth, when times are good, think more; In adversity, have more courage; When you succeed, you will be more indifferent; You are more confident when you are hesitating.

No matter how hard you try to make yourself perfect, there will always be a group of people pointing fingers behind your back. There is no need to scold anyone, and there is no need to slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, they just don't understand your lifestyle.

6. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings. We keep a criticism and a trivial matter in our hearts and let the outside world control our feelings. Many times, he may have forgotten what others have said and done, but we are still torturing ourselves. Life is not easy, and the road is bumpy, so you don't have to jump out of the trap set by others unintentionally. Live more for yourself, many people have nothing to do with you.

Seven, if you want to be happy, you must be easy-going; If you want to be happy, you must be satisfied. Happiness is the pleasure of the soul, and happiness is the satisfaction of the soul. Don't quarrel with others, yourself and fate. If you don't care, your heart will always be happy; In addition to dedication, it begins with fate and ends with fate, and contentment is always happy. You are easy-going and have your own inner happiness; Others care and worry about themselves. A day's mood depends on easygoing, and a lifetime's happiness depends on fate.

Eight, the fortunes of life depend on each other, laughter and tears are intertwined, and you don't have to be too happy to get it. If you have some, you will inevitably give up others; There is no need to grieve for what is lost, and nothing can stay forever. Don't define the happiness of life by the success or failure of your career and the amount of income. They are only vassals and have no necessary connection with happiness. As long as everything is normal, no complaints, no jealousy, no slack, no indifference, happiness can be attached.

Nine, people who bother you are here to help you; People who make you miserable come to cross you; The person you hate is the noble person in your life; People you hate help you grow; It's all a different side of yourself, and it's all another you. On the contrary, you like the things you love deeply, which often bring you pain and trouble. They are your shadows, and you can't catch them. Therefore, it is the truth to keep a good attitude to face it.

X. If you can't squeeze into this world, don't squeeze hard. It's hard to humiliate yourself for others. Don't cross the threshold that you can't cross. If you cross the door, you can cross the hurdle. If you can't do it, don't try. Another way of thinking may get twice the result with half the effort. Don't take what you can't get, even if you get it temporarily, you will lose it.

XI。 Seeing the goodness of others will make you jealous; Seeing the ugliness of others makes people feel disgusted; Seeing the poverty of others makes you feel disdainful; Seeing that others are sick and old, they are disgusted; You gloat when you see other people's misfortune. There is no joy, pity or sympathy at all. Life is impermanent, good or bad, beautiful or ugly, rich or poor, health and disease can all be reversed in an instant, so being kind to others means being kind to yourself.

Twelve, often criticize you, but also willing to help you, this is a noble person; If you help him a hundred times, you can't remember well. If you don't help him half a time, you will hold a grudge. This is the villain.

Thirteen, no matter how poor you are, don't owe money to disappear; No matter how difficult it is, don't break your word. Be upright and do things clearly. Never lose others' trust in you, because others' trust in you is the value of your existence in others' minds. Life is a long road, so don't narrow it yourself. It's done! Everything is here! Never overdraw the trust of people around you!

14. Don't argue with others easily. When someone argues with you, you let him win because you have nothing to lose. What can he win by winning? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what? Fighting will only hurt each other's harmony and increase unnecessary trouble. Cautious silence is shrewd avoidance, dealing with impermanent life with a normal heart.

Fifteen, people who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. This is because sober people look too real, too real, and there will be troubles everywhere in life; However, a confused person, he seldom cares, because his simple and rough life has found the great taste of life.

16. Look at life calmly and be yourself quietly. Life is full of variables, and determination directly affects the direction of life. The so-called concentration is to control yourself. People with good concentration should be cautious in what they say and do, do not go with the flow, do not indulge their desires, and do something wrong. Therefore, I am often unaffected by emotions, look down on the gains and losses of fame and fortune, be myself quietly, and live my own life quietly. When you are calm, your life will be at your disposal.

Seventeen, alive, you will understand, don't care too much, put down what should be put down, put down what should be put down, always burdened with troubles, tired is yourself. It is better to live happily than to live sadly.

Eighteen, others slander you because you are better than him. Others use you, which means that you are more valuable than him. Others are jealous of you, which means you are ahead of him. People attack you with words and maliciously speculate on you, which shows that you are very influential. So don't be angry, don't live up to expectations, be happy and don't be sad. Life used to be like a mirror. He laughs when you laugh, and he cries when you cry. Stick to being yourself. Close to a gentleman, far from a villain, laugh at life!

Nineteen, the normal state of life is that some things may not be perfect even if you try your best, and some people will eventually go their separate ways if you try your best to love them. When you start to accept and adapt to this, you grow up.

Twenty, friends are no better than beauty and ugliness, and their mentality is balanced; Car chat is better than nothing, just have a safe trip; Food and clothing are not more expensive than health; There is no difference between rich and poor in life, just live happily; Doing things is no smoother than having a clear conscience. Everyone has a window, open it and you can see the prosperity of others; Turn it off and enjoy it.

Twenty-one, you should always thank all sentient beings who have given you adversity. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.