Why do people have ebbs and flows in their life?

The tide rises and falls, and the full moon is short. This is a very common natural phenomenon. We are used to it, but when we meet the trough of our own life, everyone often faces different attitudes. Many people first consider why I am so unlucky, why bad things should be passed on to me, and why I can't correctly examine the problems that have happened. Since the problem has occurred, it must be that various unfavorable factors have accumulated to a certain extent, but it is just a "bad" phenomenon. These unfavorable factors may have had symptoms and signs for a long time, but they have not attracted our attention. Everything happens by accident, and it must be cumulative. Therefore, we should calm down and think about what we haven't done well or what we can do.

Dialectical thinking is a blessing in disguise, which is also in line with China's way of Yin and Yang. Therefore, the low point of life may be to remind yourself in stages that you need to slow down and think about it, and then a charge will go up.

Life can't always be smooth sailing, it must be ups and downs, but it is slowly upward. The upward trend is driven by the motivation to decide to go up after thinking about yourself in the next trough.

From the initial unacceptable status quo, slowly accept it, and declare your failure by the way, breaking the eyes of others who once had a pleasant journey; Walking, recovering, thinking, and getting along with yourself slowly, you can get to know yourself more and more. As for some weaknesses found, it is also difficult to adjust slowly. In short, everything comes slowly, no matter what the situation, it is important to learn to live in the present. I believe that with these experiences, no matter what you encounter in the future, you will be much calmer. Everything will pass, and ups and downs are the real life.

For me, every time I encounter a trough and bottleneck, I know it's time to make a comeback in the latest stage of my work and life. Always stop to check and expel toxins. This is my own thinking at the bottom of my life, but it can help me get out of the bottom faster and reach the next peak faster.