Why does the danger of being both civil and military give people the impression of poison tongue?

The first is to curse Mi Fang. Although he is a queue jumper, you scold him to his face, just like rubbing salt in someone else's wound. Sometimes, saying that he is a poisonous tongue actually means that his emotional intelligence is worrying. Some of us are now set as people with poisonous tongues. Actually, he (she) is not like this. However, Yu Fan at that time was really a poisonous tongue, a poisonous tongue in life.

The second is to kill Sun Quan face to face. Sun Quan is discussing with his ministers how to deal with Guan Yu. He got up and said that Guan Yu would die in two days, just two days. Sure enough, he was right. Sun Quan kindly said that he was an excellent talent like Dong Fangshuo, but people didn't want to! I think Dong Fangshuo is just an actor. He is a talented scholar. At that time, I let Sun Quan's face hang, and I changed the subject to get better. This man is really mean!

It was because of the poisonous tongue of the feather fan that Sun Quan couldn't bear it and sent him to Bing. I think such people are really an eyesore, out of sight and out of mind! A good meal, he is the fly, he can't get rid of it, and he hates staying. So don't appear in front of you. After he transferred to Bingzhou, he began to give lectures and talk about classic works such as Laozi, and the number of students was quite large. He died before enjoying the kindness of the students, as if he were 70 years old.

Yu Fan, an all-rounder in civil and military fields, can lecture on Confucian classics and martial arts. People are good at using spears. This is a skill or ability that he is proud of! But this person's emotional intelligence is very low, and as a result, he was sent to Bingzhou and eventually died there! If you have a dangerous gift, will you be as vicious as him?