If one day you suddenly disappear, do you think someone will look for you crazily?

Yes, being remembered is a happy thing.

Nowadays, there are many social software, and people can selectively use different social platforms to express their emotions. The most commonly used QQ, WeChat, Weibo, the corresponding space, friends circle, the latest hot. Remember to have friends around you, a dynamic, will be updated synchronously on three softwares. And I, the person who added the most on QQ, was full of thoughts and complicated emotions in my youth.

Space is my exit. At first, you will get care and greetings from your friends. However, over time, negative emotions are always not "to be seen". As I grow older, when I realize this problem, I will not express my emotions easily ―― I will learn to hide it in my heart and digest it myself.

But there will always be indigestion. As a result, Weibo became my emotional trash can. Because there are very few fans who follow me on Weibo, I won't be worried before. In this way, space and friends circle are sharing relatively happy things with you; Weibo is a dump where he is in a bad mood.

In the past, every time I made a dynamic, I would see if anyone gave me comments or praises from time to time. Looking at more and more people I like, I feel a sense of joy. It seems that the increase in numbers represents how many people care about me. You may even be forced to use this as a criterion to judge whether you care about yourself, and you will lose a little because you like fewer people.

But later, I found that none of this matters. Praise may be a kind of recognition for you, it may mean "I have seen it", or it may be a need in social circles. People who like you don't really have to ponder your words, while people who don't like you may taste the meaning behind your words in places you don't know.

The older you grow up, the less you find yourself caring about formal things. Because I realize that the person who really cares about you-he may not praise every circle of friends, but he will ask you what happened in person and give you his opinion or comfort in person.

The person who really misses you-he may not send you messages from time to time, but he will invite you by phone at a gathering of several familiar people, or hang out and chat, asking about the latest situation from time to time and teasing each other. What they call your memory is another experience.

I really enjoy this feeling. This is a kind of heartfelt happiness, and enjoy it. You will find that there is a kind of "hidden happiness" in this world called that someone is thinking about you. For example, I went to an interview two days ago. Because of the first interview, the waiting in the afternoon was very painful, and I felt like a circle of friends. Many people like it and received many comments.

However, you will find that the people in the comments may not have carefully looked at your dynamics, otherwise they will not ask, "Did you take the postgraduate entrance examination?" Such a question. Some people don't comment or like it, but directly send a message asking about the interview results. Obviously, the latter is more concerned.

I also realized once again that the person who really cares about you always has her way of caring about you. So don't be limited by the so-called rules and regulations, and don't use those formal things to measure your position in the hearts of others. Feel it with your heart, and you will feel it. Everything is in every detail.

It is happy to be remembered. Just like in Journey to the Ring of Dreams, a person who has passed away will not really disappear unless he is remembered by someone who crossed paths with him before his death. At that time, I deeply felt that death was not terrible. The terrible thing is that no one will remember your name and what happened to you. This means that you have completely disappeared from this world.