How should I make up after quarreling with ta in love?

Tarot divination: Divination: How should we make up after quarreling with ta?

It is inevitable that two people will have differences and be unhappy when they get along. Don't worry, don't be afraid, quarreling is not the end, but handling it well is an opportunity for both sides to work together to promote understanding. However, how to break the deadlock and make up? Read books, climb articles, consult experts, or draw a tarot card and give yourself some advice.

Divination rule: keep your heart calm and choose a card that moves you the most.

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1. Keep in touch frequently.

This card was drawn by a swordsman. Quarrel is not a war between hostile parties, but a sudden situation of poor communication between friendly forces. Quickly repair the communication channel of the hotline. Never heard of it: if you want to talk, you can talk? Think of yourself as a major arranger. Telephone, SMS, building management, neighbors and aunts, etc. It's all media that can't be put down. Whether he answers it or not, whether he reads it or not, he will continue to convey the message of care and care. He will keep your efforts in mind, keep in touch and never give up.

2. Don't scold back. Be good.

Drawing this card is sword ten, and the worst moment is the moment of ascension. Surrender is more powerful than resistance. This time, the other party is full of complaints and wants to say ... it may be because of this quarrel, or it may be a long-term accumulated grievance. If she/he can speak freely and do everything from the heart, there will be room for change. Anyway, what you say in a quarrel won't be too nice, and you don't have to care too much. The key is to express your emotions, listen carefully, and hear her/his loveliness and sweetness. When I finished, I greeted the dawn.

3. Cold treatment of spatial distance

The card drawn is Jian Si. Keep your distance and give some space. Cold treatment is the tacit understanding of both sides. Some things I want to say but don't want to say, and some things I want to say but don't want to say. Are you too mature or not brave enough? Don't rush to judge. The quarrel is just the tip of the iceberg. Thanks for mutual respect and giving us some time and space to face our troubles. There is no need to make it clear in a hurry, and there is no need to make an aggressive showdown. Wait, the surface harmony will come again soon, but the crux of the heart will be solved eventually.

4. Don't hesitate to explain clearly

Drawing this card is sword nine, and a flame evokes infinite fear and sadness. For the fuse of this quarrel, both sides obviously exaggerated and magnified too much. First of all, stop your infinite association, things are not that bad. Then, explain clearly as soon as possible, and explain events, moods and thoughts rationally and realistically. Misunderstanding is an unwise move to consume friendship, and a frank attitude can remove doubts in your heart. Set the fire line, limit the spread and deal with the crisis.