How to treat Douban's "One-child Parents' Pension Exchange Organization" Group?

You never know when it will get worse.

At dusk, a white car stopped downstairs in a residential area in Hefei. When the fire was put out, Wu 'an didn't come down and hid alone. At the end of a day's work, this is the fifteen minutes that she especially cherishes and belongs to her alone. Outside the window, it's getting dark, and I don't know when to turn on the light. Looking at the window belonging to her home, she didn't have the courage to go up.

This point, the TV at home, will probably play Anhui local whipped egg (a poker game) program. My father leaned back in bed, evaluating the situation with relish, and the mother next to him looked sad. I don't think the food on the table has been touched much. My father has terminal cancer and has a bad appetite. He can hardly eat anything. Wu 'an, 26, is the only child in the family. Many things are waiting for her to make up her mind: the progress of her father's illness, the treatment plan, and even where to choose the cemetery.

She still remembers when her father had his first operation, the doctor shouted at the door of the operating room, are all the family members here? Holding a big iron plate in his hand, the freshly cut gallbladder tissue spread out on it, bloody. My mother ran out of the waiting area with her mouth covered and squatted on the steps of the corridor crying.

There is no one else to rely on. My father was lying on the operating table, and Wu 'an stood alone in front of the doctor, listening to the operation process, deciding whether to use the pain stick and signing his name.

At that time, she had just graduated from college and successfully entered the civil service system of Hefei, the provincial capital. Her parents bought her a car and planned to buy a house near her work. In the original idea, in three years, I will get married and have children, and my parents will retire to Hefei to support the elderly and help with the children. For the first time, I found that her father ate health care products to delay aging, and his eyes suddenly became wet, crying and saying, "I didn't expect you to be old."

It was during that time that my father began to lose weight, and soon he was diagnosed. Wu 'an took his parents from the county seat to Hefei. In a strange city, he worked, rented a house, ran to the hospital, and asked acquaintances about his illness ... Life suddenly became a mess.

In the days to come, the number of solo fights will only increase. Her father was ill for three years. She runs to the hospital during the day and goes back to the office to work overtime at night. Late at night, my father's blood sugar plummeted and he had to be rushed to the hospital. Temporary check-up in the hospital, she has to ask for leave to register for the running list; Sometimes when my father has nightmares, my mother will call me crying and ask her to go back.

She was so afraid that the moment the phone rang, it was like an untimely bomb. Every time there is a phone call from home, Wu 'an must take a deep breath and prepare for the worst news before he can get through. Once, my mother said on the phone that my father insisted on going to the hospital by himself in a wheelchair. Wu 'an is in a meeting at work, and he is worried that his father will catch cold on the road. In front of a dozen colleagues, he whistled and burst into tears. Colleagues were frightened and asked her what happened, but she didn't speak. She picked up the car keys and went straight to the hospital. In fact, during that time, my father was always in a low mood. Just coax him. But this time, she couldn't hold on.

Things at home are not very good. Tell colleagues that Wu 'an always thinks so. Although girlfriends and boyfriends are very helpful, but that kind of personal pain, "no one can help you." She can only vent these emotions in Douban's "one-child parents' pension exchange organization" group. At least 50,000 only children share their anxiety here. From the group profile, the only children born in the 1960s, 1980, 1990, enjoy the love of their families and finally come to support their parents.

The team leader is a bean friend named Lusala. Lu Sarah's grandfather suffers from Alzheimer's disease and his grandfather has a stroke, all of which need long-term care. His father has three brothers and his mother has two brothers and sisters, so he can barely take care of them. Lusala began to worry, "As an only child, can I afford my parents' pension in the future? "Especially when working away from home." On October 20 19, 1 1 year 10, she founded this group to provide an exchange, mutual encouragement and warm platform for the only child whose parents feel anxious and encounter difficulties.