Yijing-Lei Fengheng

Guazi: Constant, blameless and auspicious. Every coin has its two sides.

The five elements of true hexagrams and Xun hexagrams belong to wood. Zhen is the strong wood of Yang wood, Xun is the slender wood of Yin wood. The upper and lower hexagrams combine yin and yang to seek common ground. Earthquake divination has the image of a trunk at the top, and Kun divination has the image of a root at the bottom. Therefore, constant divination, like a towering tree, constantly absorbs nutrients from its roots and grows. Ancient trees can live for thousands of years, which is called eternity. The core of long-term watch keeping is persistence. The moral character of sticking to hexagrams is worth promoting. As long as you stick to the right path, there is no harm in sticking to it, and you can also make a difference.

Today, this prophecy is associated with a mature view of love. There are often friends around me who will say that it is too hard to talk about feelings, and sometimes you can't get the feelings and responses you want if you work hard. Not as happy as being single. Indeed, many people are too cautious to walk into a relationship easily now, because they are tired and afraid, afraid to experience the love cycle of like, disappointment, quarrel, cold war, despair and separation again. But there are still many people around us who can enjoy love, constantly absorb nutrients in the process of getting along, and constantly help each other grow and improve. In the long river of time, the relationship between "us" has become more and more stable and important. Two people, you and me, remain independent; It's "we" again. We are interdependent, regardless of each other. We have our own self-confidence and pride, as well as places to appreciate and learn from each other. In my opinion, this relationship is the correct way to open love.

This mode of getting along is believed to be the ideal appearance of love in many people's minds. So, how can we harvest such a beautiful love? My answer is to have a mature view of love. So what is a mature concept of love? Learn to love yourself and others. A few simple words have stumped countless men and women. Some people mistakenly regard love as the whole of life, lose themselves in love, only know how to cater to each other blindly, and even kidnap each other morally; Some people will become insecure, show their sense of existence by "doing", and dispel doubts by secretly checking each other's mobile phones; Others think that as long as the other person's focus is not on her, she thinks this is a sign of unloving, and the other person expresses the hope of having her own space, and she thinks this is a signal of alienation.

People who are immature in love will eventually "achieve" a relationship. Analyzing the reasons is nothing more than not knowing how to love yourself and others. Loving yourself here is not just about being good to yourself, nor about putting your will on the other person's head to highlight yourself, but about knowing yourself, knowing your strengths and weaknesses in feelings, facing up to problems, reconciling with negative emotions, avoiding projecting self-dissatisfaction and criticism on the other person, clearly knowing what you want and being responsible for your choices. Love others to understand that no one is perfect, only the most suitable and no best. Feelings need to be managed, but also need mutual understanding and tolerance. It is also necessary to let the other party understand their own principles and bottom line, fully respect and trust each other, and constantly empower their feelings in order to achieve each other.

The essence of love is trust and freedom. Believe in yourself first, then trust each other. Everyone is an independent individual who needs space and freedom, and also needs to feel the flow of love between two people. To sum up, one person is comfortable and two people are comfortable. If you want to meet the right person, first turn yourself into the right person in the eyes of others. The thunder and wind in the hexagrams represent the eldest son and the eldest daughter respectively, and mature love can bring lasting stimulation. Time is passing, the world is changing, and we are constantly growing and adapting. If you want a lasting relationship, you must start from improving yourself and gradually mature.

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Today, when dealing with career, emotion, investment and decision-making, we should think from a long-term perspective. After finding the right direction, we must stick to our own ideas and concepts, but it must be a good idea, otherwise it will become stubborn and not worth the candle.