The second-born husband's family wants me to have a baby, but her family doesn't want me to have a baby.

Hello! From your description, I feel that both my husband's family and her mother's family are actually considering you, but the starting point for considering this matter is different. You may think that it is the advantages and disadvantages of having a second child, but the husband starts from the "benefits" of having a second child, and the husband starts from the "disadvantages" of having a second child. Anyway, they are actually just giving you consideration and advice.

As for whether or not to have a second child, the final decision is up to your husband and wife, and you can also ask Dabao for advice. There are advantages and disadvantages. I think it mainly depends on your present situation. At first, you said that you were pregnant with a second child unexpectedly, which means that you have no plans to have a second child at present, so you should consider what extra burden you need to bear if you want to have a second child, and whether your family can afford it at present. If you can, you can choose to stay. After all, it is also a life.

Anyway, communicate and analyze with your husband, don't make a blind decision, decide not to, don't regret it in the future, and communicate with your family. If you decide to have it, do your best to raise the children and give them a happy life.

Objective evaluation, I hope you will adopt it!