"After betraying my marriage, my wife said that she forgave me, and later found her plot on WeChat". what do you think?

Marriage is sadder than death in your heart.

It seems incredible that two people are together, from the initial joy to the final separation, but time can make it happen.

If you like to have a deadline, what will it be? It seems to me that no one can give an answer, because behind every answer, there may be a completely opposite story.

Some people, who have been in love all their lives, always feel like meeting for the first time. Some people are vigorous at first, but later they forget their initial heart in plain days.

The process of forgetting the initial heart quietly happens day after day.

If time goes back to six years ago, he should never have thought that he would betray his wife one day. He really loved each other when he said love for the first time.

That kind of love is warm and sincere, with the determination of a moth to put out the fire and the indomitable spirit of a teenager. It is a sense of certainty that the mountains and seas you love are flat.

Yes, there are boats crossing the sea and mountains on the road. Rao is the distance between mountains and seas. As long as the heart belongs, it can also reach the other side.

But he ignored a sentence: both mountains and seas can be leveled, and it is human heart to be difficult to level.

People's hearts are always complicated and changeable.

Just like some people, when they love you, they are warm and brave and can't wait to confess to you. When they don't love you, they can be indifferent, even strangers who pass by are not as good as them.

If you want to ask him, do you love your wife?

He said it was love, and he could also tell the sweetness and happiness when two people were together. He and his wife are college classmates, and they were formally together in their junior year. After graduation, they went through all kinds of tests and entered the marriage hall all the way.

They have witnessed each other's innocent boyhood, childish faces began to mature, they began to think about problems, and they began to plan their own blueprints. They did everything together.

They obviously have all the conditions to care for each other, their wives are gentle and kind, and their families are happy. This is the evaluation in the eyes of outsiders, but he changed his mind at an inappropriate time.

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Probably because people stay in a comfortable environment for a long time, they will yearn for the sky outside and the dangerous environment, thinking that the distant scenery can give them different experiences, so their hearts have changed.

I have heard a saying before, who is the best, white rose or red rose? The answer is, see who gets it in the end. If you get a white rose, then the white rose is rotten rice and the red rose is Zhu Shazhi. If you get a red rose, then the red rose is mosquito blood and the white rose is Bai Yueguang.

Therefore, what you can't get is the best.

His wife belongs to the white rose and always looks gentle and beautiful. She takes care of the children alone and keeps the house well. She doesn't complain or cry, just occasionally let him beat her up.

At the beginning, he was also moved in his heart, because everyone said that he was blessed and married a good wife, so that he could cherish it.

He has seen the marriages of friends around him, and sometimes he puts the same situation on his wife. He really felt that his wife's character was rare and he found the treasure himself.

But after a long time, Rao is a treasure. If you keep it at your fingertips, it can also make people deeply reduce its value.

He sometimes finds this life boring and his wife's face is dull. He has watched it for many years, and he can be calm in the face of her gentle smile.

He said that sometimes it is too monotonous for a person to calm down and think about it and feel that life has passed like this.

So, when she appeared later, he was quickly attracted.

She and his wife are diametrically opposite types. Some of them are lively and loud, and they can talk to anyone. There are also many friends of the opposite sex, and he is no exception.

She said to treat him as a brother, and he smiled gently and said nothing. But after a long time, they talked about life and ideals, and gradually talked about different feelings.

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He admitted that he liked her, which was unlike his feelings for his wife.

He likes her more. He wants to chat with her every day and tell her some unimportant jokes, so he thinks life is very interesting.

He said she made herself feel in love.

However, he neglected one thing: at the beginning, he and his wife were also out of love. It is not difficult to love someone. The difficult thing is whether you can love someone from beginning to end, whether you can keep the bottom line and not be lost by those flashy things that don't belong to you.

Unfortunately, he didn't do it.

At home, he showed himself well, let his wife relax her vigilance and secretly accompany her. He is really greedy and doesn't want to let both sides go, because he says he can't bear it.

When you are unfaithful to your marriage, sooner or later you will be repelled by your own impulse. Because everything in the world is balanced, so are feelings. It's only a matter of time.

Then one day, this matter was not hidden from his wife, because a phone call he hung up in the middle of the night made her suspicious.

His wife wanted to investigate, and all this soon surfaced. He couldn't refute it at all, and didn't even think about his story, because he didn't expect this day to come so soon.

Ironically, he never thought about divorce, because he knew that he and his wife had divorced, and it would be difficult to meet such people in the future.

Most importantly, he said he still loved her. Some people's love is always so absurd that they betray while talking about it, but they don't know that the first premise of love is loyalty.

Surprisingly, when his wife learned about it, she didn't make any noise, but kept silent. This silence made him feel at a loss, preferring her to lose her temper, scold him and hit him.

After half a month, he began to apologize. What is even more incredible is that his wife actually agreed, saying that with children, she didn't want to destroy a family.

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But on one condition, he must break up with the other party and will not be allowed to associate again in the future. He deleted her in front of his wife and vowed never to betray her again.

Everything went unexpectedly well, and his wife said she believed him. He was secretly pleased, but from then on, he obviously felt that his wife had changed a lot, and that kind of alienation and politeness was completely different from the beginning.

Besides, his wife is much lazy, but he made a mistake first, so he certainly didn't dare to complain.

Until later, he once used his wife's mobile phone to transfer ten yuan to himself and found her chatting with her best friend. He didn't open it on purpose, and many of them are her views on the present marriage.

He was disappointed: "She clearly said forgive me, but I finally found out from WeChat that it was all her conspiracy."

His wife told her best friend that she was disappointed in him. She thinks he is a trustworthy person, but she didn't expect to do such a thing. She also said that one must have two, and she didn't want to trust him anymore.

My best friend asked: Do you want a divorce?

His wife can't leave, saying she won't be so stupid. If she had, she would have been divorced. Now she understands that money is very important. After all, his income is good. Therefore, now she should learn to be indifferent and then hold more money in her own hands. When the money in her hand is almost the same, she will take the child away and break it clean.

After reading it, he had mixed feelings and was very unhappy. He thought he was forgiven, but he didn't think it was just his wife's plan to slow down. When he abandoned their love, his wife abandoned it almost at the same time.

In marriage, some mistakes are branded for life. Even if you try your best to go back to the past, it's just in vain.

And disloyal people, in the end, don't expect to get the sincerity of others.