The right way to open unrequited love

Can girls confess to boys first? No, it is not recommended that girls take the initiative to confess to boys! Don't talk about love, speak freely, it's really not good for women to chase men! Because girls and boys have different natural ways of thinking, when considering whether to communicate, the criteria for judging are not the same.

Girls will think carefully when they meet boys: 1. Is the other person your favorite type? 2. Do you have feelings for him? Do you like being pursued or do you really like him? So generally speaking, the decisions made by girls are not too hasty!

You know, some pursued boys don't think like girls. Even if they don't like it very much, they can agree to associate first. After all, there are girls who take the initiative to "send it to the door", just like small gifts distributed for free. Don't give it away for nothing! People are separated. In a short time, you can't tell whether he really likes you before agreeing to stay with you or has ulterior motives!

Someone once said that the "barrier yarn for women chasing men" accurately describes the ease with which women chase men, but I don't think it can be used to encourage girls to actively pursue boys. It is easy for girls to fall into a "short-term election" situation, and the chances of meeting people who are equally sincere to themselves are not high.

Maybe the boy agreed to your pursuit. His purpose is to enjoy the boyfriend bonus immediately and have intimate behavior with you in a short time. When these goals are achieved, it is hard to say whether he will love you or enhance your feelings! If the other person really just wants to take advantage of you in this way, then it is of little significance for you to confess to him. After all, what you want is the other person's heart, not his person. Important people, girls don't have to confess at all, just seduce. It's easy for women to seduce men! If you want his heart, taking the initiative to express it may be counterproductive.

If you two are close, you always plan to watch movies, eat and go shopping together. This shows that the other person has no objection to being alone with you. You just need to strengthen this looming ambiguous atmosphere and guide him to confess to you, and you can win him successfully!

You can create an opportunity to tentatively ask him if he likes anyone. If he answers yes, but doesn't want to tell you, you can guide him half jokingly: "You don't like married people, do you?" "I still like brother and sister?" So you won't talk? After talking, you can say, "You don't like me, do you?" "Well, if you like me, you can say earlier! Otherwise, what should I do if I am chased away! "

This not only gives him a chance to confess, but also releases the signal that he is likely to confess successfully and encourages him to confess to you.

But it also needs him to like you! If he doesn't like you very much, don't rush to do these actions.

Cultivate the feelings between him and you first, and enhance their relationship. When the time is right, you only need a little verbal encouragement and guidance, and he will definitely tell you on his own initiative.