Ding gua's advice on his son's marriage

Hello, falling in love and getting married are two things. Divination, marriage-asking and marriage-seeking are all manifestations of self-distrust. Only by improving yourself first, being ready at all times, striving to improve yourself before the fate comes, increasing personal cultivation and cultivating your unique temperament, can you seize the marriage in time. It is you who can bring you a good marriage, not fate.