Why do high-quality unmarried men marry divorced women (why do I only match divorced women)

The world's malice towards divorced women seems to have never stopped.

In real life, when marriage is in crisis, family and friends around women always advise women not to divorce easily. It is not easy for a divorced woman to find a better one. Is a divorced woman really imperfect and worthless?

You are a divorced woman, so it is not expensive.

Will unmarried men regard divorced women as aliens when choosing a spouse?

Many female friends have asked me, what kind of man can't marry? I thought about it and finally gave them a general answer, that is, immature men.

Zhang Xinyi divorced her ex-husband on 20 14 and 10. Later, she repeatedly used "inferiority complex" to describe herself at that time:

I always feel that when a woman is divorced, her life is over.

Open the news of Zhang Xinyi and Justin's wedding, and the following comments are even more ugly:

"Why is Justin looking for a second-hand and garbage bus?"

"A divorced woman is like wearing old and dirty shoes. Even if she reluctantly accepts it, her heart has always been sympathetic. "

But in my opinion, no matter how many times I have been married, Justin's Zhang Xinyi must be perfect.

When he chooses to live in harmony with this woman, he must be deeply in love without impurities.

There are countless examples of celebrities remarried and happy, such as Li Faye Wong, Faye Wong, Jie Kaixiu and Qin Hao.

In the face of true love, everyone is equal, regardless of family or class, and the scars of the past are not revealed.

At this moment, we have each other, only this one in front of us, and we don't look back.

When a marriage can't go on, it's not a woman's unilateral reason. I believe that for many people, it takes a lot of courage to enter marriage.

When one day I couldn't go on, I couldn't stand the mental suffering any longer, so I chose to give up.

No one stipulates that we can't be apart, and no one can guarantee that we will be together forever!

Because life is impermanent and reality is helpless, the choice is in your own hands!

Men don't mind women breaking up after unmarried cohabitation, but they dislike divorced women?

For men, as long as the economy is ok, they want to find a young and beautiful woman as a partner. No one wants to find a divorced woman directly, which adds a lot of burden to themselves.

Under the same conditions, men are more inclined to choose a young girl who has never been married than divorced women.

Men think: I am still young, I can have a better choice, my parents will not accept it, and my friends will not accept it. These are all reasons. If I really love, what is unacceptable?

The subtext is: I can accept that you have a past, but you can't get married.

A divorced woman's, I can't afford outsiders pointing fingers at my marriage, and I don't want to bear such a reputation! I really don't know what reputation it is. )

In my opinion, unmarried men who can accept divorced women are at least stronger in their hearts, that is, more inclusive.

Unmarried men will not choose, maybe they are not strong inside, maybe they don't love enough!

A person's past, present and future constitute a lifetime. When you can't accept each other's past, your love may be only temporary.

Men are also very realistic animals!

I have done some surveys, and in the survey data, 85% of men directly replied that they would not marry a woman with a history of marriage as a partner.

In addition, the expression of 15% depends on the other side's conditions: external conditions and economic ability!

It is sad for a woman who chooses divorce to leave an unhappy marriage in name only, and she will face more helplessness when she goes out. Not only does she have to bear the psychological trauma caused by divorce, but what is more terrible is the pressure from family, friends and society, as well as the criticism and contempt of others.

The concern of most divorced women: Can you still marry a good man after divorce?

Most women are more delicate emotionally than men. After divorce, women always think more.

If you find another man, will it be worse than the last one? If so, it's over, so you will compare the previous relationship, which is also a difficult point for women to remarry.

Most divorced women are in a bad mood. If you don't adjust your psychology in time, you will feel confused and afraid of remarriage.

After all, it is not easy to rebuild a family, and there are many psychological difficulties to face.

Over the years, in psychological counseling, it is found that some women have been hurt in divorce, but it takes a long time to get out of the old injury mode.

But some women will cut the gordian knot and quickly get out of the shadow of divorce and start a new marriage life.

It is really unreasonable for many unmarried men who have no requirements for themselves to set the principle of not divorcing women for marriage. Many men reject divorced women from their hearts. Whose new love is never someone else's old love?

Who hasn't been in love in prosperity?

What man has never had an ex-girlfriend?

The world's tolerance for men often becomes harsh on women without exception.

This seems to be a secular truth and a woman's fate.

The times are progressing and the mind is broadening, but women, especially divorced women, are always not respected and treated well.

What happened to the divorce? Divorce is only the unfortunate end of married life and should not be a reason for discount.

If you are an unmarried man, you meet a divorced woman with children. What if it's Yang Mi?

The picture comes from the internet and has nothing to do with this article.

If you are unhappy in marriage, can't you have your own choice after all kinds of attempts, domestic violence and betrayal?

When many men see this, they may say: Is that for children?

So, when men cheat, have they ever considered children? This is his own!

Divorce is not necessarily a bad thing. For some people, this is the end of a bad relationship. For some people, this is the beginning of a new life. Whether you need a man after divorce depends on what every woman needs.

Therefore, divorced women can't move if you want, and divorced women also have the right to happiness!

Finally, that sentence. We don't like playing mandarin ducks, and we don't encourage divorce. But if you really can't go on, it will hurt not only two adults, but also the crystallization of your love.

Dear friends, I hope you can treat your feelings in the right way:

Don't give up on yourself, don't fight.

Follow your heart and don't make the same mistake again.

Plan your life and future, don't be a "parasite" woman, and don't make other attachments.

Don't maliciously speculate on others. I believe that "love rat and love rat" are only a few, and good men will definitely have them;

I believe that love is still beautiful, that love is still waiting for you, and that you deserve a happy life!

You just need to understand that the end of a marriage doesn't mean a lifetime, it's just a choice.

Everyone is an adult and can be responsible for his actions. In the face of marriage, we should all have clear goals and clear ideas, be kind to each other and run well together.

When you leave, don't give up, don't worry about the upcoming changes, or laugh at yourself.

Man, are you willing to associate with divorced women and get married?

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