There are three hurdles in life. Which three are they?

Although the road of life is very long, it is often only a few steps.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Everyone in China has the spirit of the Three Kingdoms, and everyone has a" Three Kingdoms "in their hearts." A Romance of the Three Kingdoms tells us all kinds of heroes, and also tells us a truth: people have to go through all kinds of ups and downs in their lives. People have been through hurdles all their lives, and three of them are very important.

0 1 The first hurdle in life: adolescent abstinence.

Su Shi wrote in "Fighting on behalf of Zhang Jian": "The things that hurt people are different, and those who are kind will die.

"Young people are soft-blooded, often can't help but be tempted and easily addicted to hue.

Historically, Zhuge Liang was "eight feet long and very handsome", but he married an ugly woman, Huang Yueying.

At that time, people regarded it as a joke, and even there was a proverb circulating in the countryside: "If you don't learn from Zhuge, you will be an ugly girl in Acheng."

"The whole world feels sorry for Zhuge Liang, but he is very satisfied with himself, because what he sees is not a woman's appearance, but her connotation.

Although Huang Yueying is ugly, she is very talented. According to legend, she helped Zhuge Liang make a wooden ox and a flowing horse.

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Zhuge Liang's choice of Huang Yueying is a manifestation of "emphasizing festival over color". Broadly speaking, "color" is not only "beautiful appearance", but also includes all the temptations in the world such as money, fame and fortune.

At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, many young talents were eager to make contributions. In order to get what they wanted, they chose to leave the mountain ahead of time and take refuge in some powerful groups. Just when everyone was chasing fame and fortune, Zhuge Liang chose to live in seclusion in Longzhong for ten years.

Although Zhuge Liang is ambitious, he is secretive. He farmed during the day, studied at night, made friends in his spare time, lived a quiet life, and his mind was tempered like water.

It can be said that without this painstaking study, there would be no Zhuge Wuhou who later went down in history.

Zhuge Liang is well aware of the importance of "resisting temptation" to young people, so he later wrote to warn his son many times: "Indifference can't make your heart clear, and tranquility can't be far away."

There is a saying in Confucius' family: "Seeing profit without losing righteousness, seeing death without keeping it." Temptation is a gorgeous brocade, once put on, it is easy to lose yourself.

. Especially for young people who are not deeply involved in the world, alcohol, sex, fame and fortune are all toxic to the intestines. If you are not careful, you will ruin your life. Therefore, young people should have an insipid and persistent mentality of "the Eight Winds can't be blown, and they should be serious, be honest, stay away from temptation and respect Xie Fuming".

Break through the noise and meditate before temptation. Only in this way can we live happily.

The second level of life: stop fighting in middle age.

If one word is used to summarize the highlights of Romance of the Three Kingdoms, I think "Entering the Dragon" is the most appropriate one. Whether it is a clear knife and a clear gun on the battlefield or a battle of wits outside the battlefield, people are relished.

There are victories and defeats in the struggle, and the truth behind the victory and defeat is more worthy of our aftertaste.

Zhou Yu in Romance of the Three Kingdoms is the commander-in-chief of Soochow. He is quite clever. When Cao Cao's army went south, most officials in Wu Dong camp advised Sun Quan to surrender. Only Zhou Yu and Lu Su parted the crowd and resolutely fought the main battle, giving Sun Quan reassurance.

It can be said that Zhou Yu is the most dazzling fuses iconic in Battle of Red Cliffs. But he has a fatal shortcoming, that is, he is competitive. It is this "combative temperament" that has led him to the point of no return.

Battle of Red Cliffs, Sun Liulian * * * resisted Cao Cao, and Zhuge Liang showed extraordinary strategies, which made Zhou Yu, who had always been proud, very unhappy. Because of the alliance, Zhou Yu secretly designed to get rid of Zhuge Liang many times.

On one occasion, Zhou Yu sent Zhuge Liang to Jutieshan to cut off the route for providing foodstuff in Cao Jun, hoping to get rid of Zhuge Liang by Cao Cao. But Zhuge Liang saw through Zhou Yu's plan, so he said to Lu Su, "Our water war, foot war, horse war and car war have their own advantages. Why should we worry about their failing grades? They are no more capable than Duke Jiangdong and Zhou Lang.

Lu Su quickly asked: "Why do you say that I have only one skill with the viceroy?" "Zhuge Liang said with a smile," There is a legend in Jiangdong that water wars depend on Zhou Lang, while land wars depend on children. This shows that the viceroy is not good at land warfare.

When this word reached Zhou Yu's ears, he flew into a rage, so he prepared to "lead 10,000 horses to Jutieshan and cut off the route for providing foodstuff for Cao Jun." In order to win the battle with Zhuge Liang, Zhou Yu forgot the heavy responsibility on his shoulders and almost let himself fall into a trap and ruined the great event.

There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "A man's talent does not dispute, and the world cannot compete with him." Many times, the more you want to win, the easier it is to fail. It should be noted that you can win everything only if you can't rob yourself.

There is such a story in the allusions. There was an official named yangfu in the Ming Dynasty who had two pigs at home. Every day, servants go to Houhu to pick fresh duckweed and feed it. One day, the servant came to Houhu, Cai Ping, and met the servant of another official.

In order to pick fresh duckweed, the two men quarreled fiercely. Later, yangfu's servant was so angry that he ran home to complain to Yang Fu, hoping that yangfu would stand up for him.

Yangfu learned this story, not angry, but wrote a poem:

Behind the lake outside the Taiping Gate, it is not your ancestors who go to the ground. I can't stand duckweed at all. How can I punt in my stomach?

In yangfu's view, duckweed is not her own thing, so why haggle over every ounce? It is better to be open-minded and pay attention to harmony.

In the end, yangfu resolved the contradiction between the two families with his generosity. Jiang Wen wrote in "Middle Age in Dog Days": "Middle age is a struggle. Man can't fight against life, and life can't fight against time.

"The most disturbing word in the world is' struggle'.

From middle age to middle age, people have experienced many worldly struggles, and should understand the truth that "an indisputable talent is a good life".

Undoubtedly, instead of muddling along, we face life with a different attitude.

Since then, this ship has passed away, and Jiang Hai spent the rest of his life.

Being a peaceful and open-minded middle-aged person can not only gain the respect of others, but also face yourself frankly.

The third level of life: abstinence in old age.

"Zhuangzi" has a cloud: "Wren nests in the deep forest, the only one; The mouse drank the water from the river, but the river was full.

"Flying birds die of gluttony; The fish in the deep pool died of bait. You can't be greedy, and good deeds will stop. After Cao Cao defeated Zhang Lu and captured Hanzhong, there was a panic.

At this time, Sima Yi suggested to Cao Cao to attack Shu: "Liu Beigang has just won Yizhou, and now he is competing with Sun Quan for Jingzhou. This is the best time for us to attack Yizhou. If we continue to March, West Shu will inevitably fall.

"Cao Cao sighed after hearing this:" Food is the most important thing for the people. They have already got Longyou, and they want to get Shu again? "After the failure of Battle of Red Cliffs, Cao Cao lost his greed and became more stable in his later years. He knew that his rear was still unstable, and Liu Bei in Shu was by no means easy to deal with, so he chose to retreat contentedly. Perhaps this was the best choice for Cao Cao at that time.

Caigen Tan said, "It is better to keep what you have done."

However, the world is generally greedy, always wanting more things, and now it has lost everything. Desire will obscure conscience, and people's hearts will become hard to look straight at.

There is a man in Japan who entered the stock market at 70 yen at the age of 34 and earned 20 billion yen a year at the age of 84. This person is called "God of Stock Market" by Japanese financial circles, and he is Chuanyincang. He earned 30 billion yen at the age of 80, but later he went to Shui Piao because of his greed.

From 65438 to 0976, small and medium-sized cement plants in Japan closed down one after another due to the sharp drop in cement demand. However, after careful analysis, Chuanyincang believes that the downward trend of Japanese cement enterprises is coming to an end, and the government will definitely build large-scale projects to solve the increasingly serious unemployment problem, and cement will definitely skyrocket.

As a result, it was Chuanyincang who began to quietly eat shares of Japanese cement company at a low price. From 65438 to 0977, the Japanese cement industry gradually recovered, and the share prices of many cement companies began to soar.

. At this time, it was Chuan Yinzang who ate 30 million shares of Japanese cement company and finally made a profit of more than 3 billion yen. Later, he also accurately predicted the rise of copper prices, bought Tonghe Mining, and made a big profit of 30 billion yen. Everything was perfect, but because of greed, Chuanyincang didn't stop in time, and finally even his principal of 3 billion yen almost lost.

However, it was Chuanyincang who seized the opportunity to invest in gold mines and made a profit of 20 billion yen.

In order to avoid repeating the same mistakes, this time he was satisfied and made a quick profit, and finally created the myth of Japanese stock market. Tao Te Ching said: "The disaster is greater than dissatisfaction, and the blame is greater than desire. So the contented are always happy. " People are old, the sun is weakening, and there is no vitality in youth. Everything is in line with their wishes and must not be forced.

Life is your own, not for others to see.

As long as today is happier than yesterday, then this life is not wasted. We should continue to pick it up when we are young. When we get old, we should learn to let go.

Lu Yao once said: "Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps at stake."

"When people were young, when they were indifferent to Zhi Ming, they bravely resisted the temptation of the outside world; When people reach middle age, don't fight or grab, and embrace everything with an open mind; When people get old, they should be content and take a step back. Although the world is rough, how happy life is. Only after these three hurdles can life be complete. * * * and friends.