How to resolve misunderstanding

Whether in primary school, middle school or university, misunderstandings between friends and classmates are inevitable. But how to solve it has always been our problem. In this regard, I want to talk about my solutions to these problems.

In fact, it boils down to two points: communication and understanding.

Is this really understandable? It is when you encounter a misunderstanding with your friends that you must think about why there is such a misunderstanding. A person's living environment is different from his childhood, so people communicate in different ways, and some taboos are different. So in the process of getting along, we will inadvertently touch the bottom line of others. Sometimes we don't know. Of course, it was unintentional and I don't know what happened. Then, the best way to solve this situation is communication. Find an opportunity to tell him, apologize to the other party first, then come straight to the point, and be tactful, because we have touched their bottom line and he (she) may not be willing to communicate with us, so we should show sincerity. I think since we are friends, facing your sincerity, he will not refuse to accept your apology and sincerity in communication.

There are also minor contradictions. For example, friends joke, because there is no good proper limit, so we go too far, so we should have the ability to observe what they say, and stop when we see each other unhappy. If you annoy each other, you can apologize immediately and pay attention next time. If you are embarrassed to apologize in front of others, you must apologize afterwards.

Of course, after getting along for a long time, we should have some understanding of everyone's personality and temper, and also have some necessary understanding of everyone's bottom line, so that there will be no contradictions and misunderstandings everywhere when we get along. Be good at communication in the face of misunderstanding.

The above are some of our practices in the face of misunderstanding by others. Let's talk about what we should do when others touch our bottom line.

When a casual or intentional remark by a friend touches our bottom line, we should look at it from two aspects: one is unintentional, so we should deal with it with tolerance and understanding, but it is by no means laissez-faire, and let others know our bottom line. The other situation is intentional, and we have to doubt the sincerity and reliability of our friends. Is this friend worth making friends with? Can you tolerate his behavior? Whether you are a passerby or not, all kinds of final decisions are up to you. The standard for me to make friends is that he can listen to others and not be too strong. So when I have problems with them, I can solve them through communication.

Most misunderstandings between friends are accumulated by unpleasant little things, so it is essential to observe words at ordinary times, so that unpleasant little things should not happen, or if they do, we must find ways to remedy them. Of course, no misunderstanding is also a dangerous signal, and some small misunderstandings will enhance friendship. Therefore, we should give priority to prevention, communicate more and understand more.