Four secrets that women should keep from men.

Four secrets that women should keep from men.

Some people say that lovers, especially couples, can't have secrets, but should be honest with their lovers. I don't agree with this statement. Most questions should be frank, but some privacy should be kept from each other as much as possible, because TA may do great harm when it knows.

There are some things we don't deliberately hide, but we made a mistake before this relationship happened, or that point in our hearts doesn't affect the fluctuation of marriage and we can't see the sunshine, otherwise the exposure will break the relationship between the two. These are four little secrets I want to mention.

1, trampled by people

Maybe we regard feelings as chastity and are cautious about them, but we don't provoke others, which doesn't mean that others won't provoke us. Sometimes, we will be harassed or even trampled by hooligans or suitors. It's not your own fault. Blame the beast who ruined himself.

But we can't say that because we lost our virginity, we stopped pursuing happiness and getting married. This is unrealistic. Because after the nightmare, we will wake up, and the sun will be as bright after waking up, especially after meeting the boy we like.

Men and women need to know each other in communication and getting along with each other, which is also a stage of finding a meeting point, but we'd better not disclose what we have trampled on to the man we love. I don't rule out that some men don't mind, but most men, except for a little sympathy, just find an excuse to leave you. Even if they don't leave you, their feelings for you will gradually become cold. So shut your mouth.

I fell in love with another man.

This love is not to marry someone else, but to feel that something attracts me from this man, and I can find happiness from this man. This worship-style spiritual sustenance will not affect marriage, but it is easy to expose the truth in life, so you must keep your mouth shut and not be careless, otherwise the consequences will be very serious. Either he will love you less, or break up with you, leaving you scarred.

3. I can't find stimulation in men.

I was talking about sex. It's not surprising that some women may never have that kind of high-flying sex. So when you encounter this situation, you and your man are not out of date. Try not to say it, because your words will make him feel very self-respecting and he will feel that he is not a man. If it is serious, he may not have sex with you in the future, and even if he does, he will be particularly embarrassed, probably to cope.

4. Being liked by other men and inviting them to meet.

In society, we are not individuals, and we cannot be individuals. We need to communicate, work and live. Sometimes, in order to work, I have to do something that I am not so happy to do, such as meeting male clients in private, and some of them are asked out as lovers. If the other person doesn't mess around, you don't have a ghost in your heart, and your job requires you to have a good relationship with this male client, you may have a tryst with him.

You may not be so serious on a date. The other party may take the opportunity to hug you or something, but it is not too derailed. This shouldn't be a problem, but if you tell your man about it, it may be misunderstood, so be careful. Don't say anything

Keeping privacy is not cheating, so don't forget a bottom line and your conscience when keeping privacy.