Teacher Claire's Biography-Blessed are the believers

When we bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, it is a surprise to hear the teacher share his past in the meditation group. It's really the best gift for the New Year.

When the teacher said that "every seven years is an important stage of life", I remembered the book "Seven years is a lifetime" said by a wise man, and he also gave me a red envelope on holidays. When I hear this, I recall my changes in the past seven years, which can really be described as "transformation". I will review them later in the article.

Let's record the teacher's every seven years:

One, 0-7 years old-pain

Because I lost a family, I entered the vagrancy of life.

Second, 7- 14 years old-ice and fire coexist

He has a very remarkable success and is also a leader among his peers, but at this time he is very lacking in love.

Iii. 14-2 1 year-the worst period of life

Mainly because I failed in the college entrance examination, I experienced suicide and self-help. At this time, the blow of life followed.

4. 2 1-28 years old-the heel wheel and the submarine wheel began to take root.

Continue to pursue further studies, strive to buy a house and a car, get married and have children, and get promoted at work. At this time, the teacher is an ordinary secular middleman, trying to get these things that I think are so miserable, because others have them, but the pain has not diminished after the teacher found out.

Five, 28-34 years old-inspiration from the depths of the soul

At this stage, the teacher met the first person who really inspired and inspired the soul, because studying abroad led to thinking: what is the happiest thing for people and what kind of person do you want to be? You don't just do what others do, don't blindly follow, but really think about what kind of person I am.

This period has a great influence on the teacher's life and is a further fragmentation of her self. The carefully reconstructed self, shattered at the moment she went abroad, opened a door and entered a new world. After studying abroad, the "self" is further broken. The valuable things that were once proud of may be worthless there, but what they think is valuable is beyond our understanding. How to let go of "judgment" and "self-centeredness" may not be recognized, because in China, "you have to be a good student, a good boy, and work hard …" in order to make you worthy of being loved. But more foreigners value a person's core, whether he can be self-consistent, whether he can accept what he has done and whether he can enjoy himself.

I was at a loss, confused and confused. What is worth living? ? It is the teacher who presented us today-"You are valuable" (you can do whatever you want). It is this simple love for life, simple acceptance and openness to yourself and others, and I feel that people all over the world are valuable.

The teacher's study at that time didn't help her to survive at that time, because she didn't make any decision for the immediate interests, but followed her intuition, her inner feelings and her passion to choose life and spend her own money. Therefore, don't spend money according to the purpose of the world, which is not the real direction of our life. Don't just look at the immediate interests and goals, even if what you invested at that time seems to have no return, it is likely to have a great return at some point in the future.

Previous experience has made the present teacher, and today's pain is one of the prerequisites to open the spiritual road. A lot of pain is not at the level of feeling, and not everyone will have the same pain when they experience the same event.

The teacher tapped the key points in four places when sharing:

For example:

"Don't just because he said I don't have the right person, I won't love? Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, this is my script. " I won't hide, even though I know he will leave me. "Don't run away from the lessons and practice of life. Don't let others say anything, you can't live well either. If you want to lose ten pounds, don't you live well before you lose ten pounds? Is it unworthy to be loved?

Comments:

From the end of the story, "the teacher is the healer", and the previous life experience (various roles) and study are all paving the way for healing others' body and mind. After knowing this, I can only appreciate that I can listen to my inner voice and dare to follow my intuition.

What do teachers do when they grow up: follow books (books are spiritual teachers) and learn from teachers.

Revelation:

(1) do not seek pleasure, avoid suffering. Pain is not a bad thing, but a good thing that really makes you grow. It is the food chosen by your soul, the food arranged by God for you, and the rich virtue.

2 How to treat the tutor? Up and down, open the top of your head and get through the chakras. The important reason why teachers learn fast: 100% trust the people they follow, and the people who use them are not in doubt. 0 can maximize absorption, while absorbing and discharging bad things. Never forget the growth and inspiration brought by an important mentor.

Finally, the teacher gave us hope, hoping that everyone would reach the realm as soon as possible: ↓

Stop proving anything. No longer prove to anyone that doing anything is only for what you want and like, not for proof.

People always use their own perspective to understand the world, just as ants think that the earth is flat. Looking at a person with insufficient dimensions, you can't see the whole picture of a person. Looking at a person in two dimensions, you can only see the projection of the other person in the two-dimensional world. Don't try to interpret it one-sidedly. Therefore, don't covet pleasure, avoid pain, and treat your feelings, experiences and what others have done to us equally.

After listening to this, I can't help but think of every seven years of my life.

One, 0- 14 years old two seven years-trauma, not being concerned.

Especially when I was five years old, I met with violence on campus. Although I was very young at that time, it has been a long time now, and I am a relatively insensitive person, which also left me a lot of shadows. When I was in primary school and middle school, I was always afraid to talk to others. I never went to the podium and was never paid attention to. That's why I began to care about other people's eyes and comments from my college days (14- 19 years old). I worked so hard to do many things just to prove that I am excellent. Fortunately, on the last day of 19, I have healed some previous injuries.

Second, 14-20 years old-prove yourself and seek attention? Be aware of yourself, see empathy, let go of yourself and need inward.

This period of time can be divided into two parts:

(1) From four years of college to one year of internship: one * * * five years, probably when my heel wheel and submarine wheel began to take root.

In the summer vacation before 14 began to study, I silently set a goal, that is, to be excellent and to shine in the crowd, so even when I was completely unprepared to give a speech on stage, I always rushed back and forth in classes and departments, forcing myself to grow again and again. Until I graduated from college, I still didn't learn to speak freely and freely in public.

However, compared with the original green self, I really grew up a lot. After all, there is a saying that "practice makes perfect", although I grow up really slowly. I remember that people would say I was fine at that time, but I still knew that I kept my "timidity" in my heart, and I still cared so much about other people's opinions. Now I know what the pit in my heart is.

Looking back carefully, in the first three years of college, I did a lot of things that everyone thought were excellent: I practiced calligraphy and Mandarin crazily. After passing Grade I and Grade B of Mandarin, calligraphy won national and provincial awards and became my core competitiveness, which can now be achieved by them; I spent a lot of time doing part-time jobs, and now I have saved almost100000 yuan just after working part-time for half a year.

But during this time, my heart is not happy, just as the teacher said, it is still very painful to pursue what others think is good.

In the third year of high school, I began to be willful. I quit all my jobs and departments and devoted myself to practicing calligraphy to pay for what I need now. These gains are in line with what I am pursuing and enjoying now. Maybe in everyone's eyes, my growth is rising in a straight line, but now I think I achieved "spiral growth" in my senior year.

The school where I practiced in the fifth year has exercised a lot of working ability that I can use now; At the same time, I have more time to work part-time and realize the active income of 8 thousand yuan per month; Met an important person in his life; Start learning investment, improve investment methods, and be a class teacher in the financial platform to lead everyone to learn.

During this period, I am open, trust others unconditionally, and share them without reservation. Therefore, when I studied financial management for a long time, I learned to glow and start studying without hesitation, which also laid the foundation for my transformation during this period.

I'm glad I met these at the age of 19. I was open at first, full of love and curiosity about the world. This brings us to the second part of the second seven years.

②19-just 20 years old.

Good luck has been with me since my internship. I went to my favorite school to teach, was assigned to my favorite job, fell in love with it, and celebrated my nineteenth birthday when I officially worked. At the same time, I took another self-luminous course.

What teachers have done in recent years is to accumulate things that can cure others. As shown in the above picture, I cured myself with what I learned in these two months.

(1) Fully accept what happened.

The teacher's words taught me to accept myself at any time? Dig deep into my childhood. Now I have the ability to perceive, accept and face, and I know myself very well. The next road is long, but I will walk into this world with courage and strength, embark on a journey, transform and adjust to become a better self, and strive to let go of my self-centered self. I will enter a new stage of my life, my next goal will be much clearer, and my focus will be fully devoted to my work. Everything happened just right.

I don't force myself anymore. I subtract more and more from my life, know how to choose, and rely on intuition to make choices as much as possible. It's quick and simple, and I don't weigh the left and right as before. I'm glad I met the self-luminous teacher so early. The most meaningful thing this year is to see and hug the teacher himself and truly feel what a truly energetic person is!

② Pain is the thrust of all behaviors and growth.

What the teacher said made me understand that pain is not a bad thing, not only for the teacher, but also for us. If a person who lives in a smooth ivory tower and has never seen the real situation of life says that he has mastered the truth of the operation of the universe, some people believe ... I think it is a great blessing for us to have a teacher's guidance, but the suffering may only be experienced by everyone. Can you go on and face yourself truly every day?

The teacher's life is extremely simple, and fame and fortune have never bothered her.

"It's not that I don't love money, but that I know what I need. I'm enough. I don't want more." This sentence echoed in my ears again. This afternoon, my little sister said, "Now I am happy enough to be indifferent to fame and fortune, and you can make money again." Yes, as long as there is enough money. I don't need money, and I don't worry about making money. Now I'm not worried about money at all. I thought it was a number when I watched the stock market rise and fall yesterday.

Last night, my senior sister's sentence "It is the princess of God who drills you" touched me. We are all children of God, our precious princesses. So we don't need to feel humble in front of people who have more money or resources than we do. Because we are God's treasure.

4 simple love for life, simple truth for yourself, simple acceptance and openness to others, I feel that people all over the world are valuable.

I have done it gradually, getting better and better! Start to dominate the relationship and let go of the obsession of "what should he do"

I'm not that little girl, waiting for their saplings to bathe in the sunshine. I have the ability to provide shelter for others. So, if they want to be with me and want something from me, I will give it to them.

What teachers have done in recent years is to accumulate things that can cure others. I cured myself with what I learned, and I began to learn to love the people around me.

What the above people said to me yesterday

20 19 I got the nickname "Wenwen Little Cute, Wenwen Big Brother, Wenwen Little Fairy, Wenwen Little Girl, Treasure Girl, Wenwen Little Angel", and boys older than me called me Wenwen Sister because they thought I knew more. Really realized that "the more you give, the more you have".

My life is relatively painless. When I met the teacher, I happened to become a people's teacher, cultivated the skills of working to make money, had the ability to make money, and practiced a lot in intimate relationships. But with an empty cup mentality, I fell in love with reading, writing and sports, and took many detours; You can boldly pursue what you like and want.

Life is so beautiful * _ *