In ancient times, both men and women held adult ceremonies. How are these "coronation ceremonies" held?

The boy's adult ceremony is called the crown ceremony, and the girl's adult ceremony is called the ceremony. They all have things on their heads. The boy wears a crown and the girl wears a hairpin.

Girls' gifts are a little earlier than boys', and they are only adults when they are fifteen. In ancient times, adulthood meant marriage. At this time, a shower will be held. However, in ancient times, son preference was serious, so there were few gifts. In ancient times, children, both boys and girls, had loose hair after birth. Holding a rite of passage means picking up their hair and using hairpins.

The girl's wedding is presided over by the girl's biological mother, and the guests should be informed in advance. On the day of the ceremony, the mother took her daughter into the hall, and the guests at the banquet helped the girl dress, change clothes, toast and use words. Finally, the father took his daughter to the ancestral temple to worship the ancestors, and the wedding ceremony basically ended.

It is said that the coronation ceremony of boys is more grand than that of girls, so we should pay attention to it. The crown was very important in the eyes of the ancients. Even if he dies, the crown can't be lost. The boy was a boy before the coronation ceremony. After the coronation ceremony, he came of age and became a man. Therefore, the coronation ceremony is very important for ancient boys.

The coronation ceremony was presided over by father or eldest brother. Carry out divination first and inform the guests three days in advance. A * * * was crowned three times, the first time indicating adulthood, the second time indicating that he can perform military service, and the third time indicating that he can sacrifice. When he is finished, the boy will visit his mother, and the guests will take a message for him. He will also visit the local governor, elders and brothers. It is said that there are more than ten steps.