Can't bear the betrayal of feelings, or are you afraid to face and betray the truth behind it?

Can't bear the betrayal of feelings, or are you afraid to face and betray the truth behind it? Suffering from emotional betrayal is a long-standing problem for some people and an insurmountable hurdle in life. Of course, there are many reasons for this dilemma, but one of them, which is likely to exist in many people, is to pin their hopes on each other and expect them to be responsible for themselves and help them solve their problems.

If you have the courage to think about this question and find the real answer, it is not difficult to solve the difficulty; The difficulty is that you may not dare to think, you may not answer or admit the real answer.

The moment the truth is solved, it must be unbearable, heartbreaking and uneasy; Even, it will make you feel completely helpless and collapsed ... but if you run away from the truth, how can the problem be really solved?

You are with a person, and the other person pushes you into the mire. You may think that the other person is unintentional. You may think that this is a pit problem, a road problem, or even a careless problem-this is not true. The fact is: another convenience is very important to you.

How to understand or explain the personal behavior characteristics of betrayal-betrayal is a mistake that everyone will make, and the world is as black as a crow; Or is a person ruthless, selfish and concerned about his main performance? Is the person who betrays himself trustworthy? Do you still need trust?-naturally, you don't need it. Naturally, it's not worth it. At least that was the result at that time. But do you admit this answer?

You're worried. If you don't admit it, it's hard for you to convince yourself. If you admit it, how can you talk to such a person again? So, you probably want to break up, but in order to deal with it, you gradually fade away and escape. You don't want to give everything in this influence. You can't handle breaking up. You are more worried that after making this decision, you will be lonely for the rest of your life, a person's life.

So, you went home again, and you tried to tell yourself. Even if this man betrayed me before, we still have feelings. Ta has been very kind to me and will return to the past in the future; I give ta a chance, just like giving myself a related opportunity; If you don't give it to yourself, you have to think of the children. ..

In this way, you changed your mind and did ideological work for yourself. You convince yourself that it seems to have returned to a relatively stable mode. As we all know, two days later, either you find that the other party is still cheating on you and betraying you; Either you find that the reasons you gave yourself before can't really convince yourself.

After betrayal, it is not easy to choose. There is no right or wrong choice, but you must face the facts and admit them. If you just blindly escape, you will eventually double your effect.

If you still don't understand, then give a simple example: a person who has betrayed you many times, you also hope that TA can start over one day and know how to reflect on itself. This is a typical evasive question. Your problem is not how to solve the betrayal of the other party, but how to solve your own imagination.