Why are some people always targeting you? Is it bad luck or are you easy to bully?

I didn't do anything. Why is someone always targeting me? "

"Is my fortune too bad, or is my gas field too weak to look bullied?"

You can often hear such questions when you look at the fortune.

There are more women, because women's perception ability is naturally stronger than men's; Men may not care too much, or they may realize it.

We all hope that the world is beautiful, but the world is not as beautiful as we thought. There will always be some narrow-minded, controlling and jealous villains around us.

People don't bully people who are better than themselves, and they can't. When they are weak and small, there are the most villains, and they are also the easiest to be targeted and bullied.

Because they feel that bullying you costs the least and makes them feel superior to you.

These people themselves are not superior to you, and they must be people around them, and some of them are so-called "friends".

People will envy the people around them for making a small sum of money, not a stranger winning the prize, but only envy; Most people who hurt themselves are people around them, and friends will betray you. Strangers don't know your secret.

Therefore, it is very important to know people, pay attention to people around you, do no harm to others, and prevent people from being indispensable.

In the social environment, there are two important standards:

1, don't reveal your privacy;

Even the best friends don't talk about everything. True good friends are not maintained by revealing secrets to each other. It is enough to communicate with each other frequently and get along well with each other.

Everyone has secrets that they don't want anyone to know. Only one person knows these secrets. If you can't save them yourself, don't ask others to save them for you.

Secrets are just seeds for breaking up. Most friends break up by telling secrets, turning against each other and then deliberately targeting them.

Don't talk about others behind their backs.

You don't know where the people who listened at that time would embellish these words;

There will always be some narrow-minded, controlling and jealous villains around us. Inevitably, you don't know what others are like, and you can only protect yourself as much as possible.

People don't bully people who are better than themselves. If they are strong enough to surpass their own level, jealousy will turn into jealousy, and villains will turn from jealousy and tricks to ingratiation.

Others are always against themselves, and there is another situation in life:

There are many weaker people in a group. These people are good to them or get along well with them, but they try to bully themselves, play all kinds of tricks to get rid of them and try to be above themselves?

I didn't speak ill of them, and I didn't do anything they didn't like. I just did my own thing and occasionally talked about my favorite things. I didn't make enemies with anyone, but they targeted themselves, not others.

In this case, friends and family may just feel that they are too sensitive, or "it must be your fault that others are targeting you and not targeting others." Otherwise, why not target others? "

In this case, you must understand that it is not your fault that you are too sensitive.

But its own magnetic field and fortune.

In terms of wealth, there is a kind of money-sharing robbery. What they robbed were their peers, colleagues, classmates, friends and people at the same level. In the fortune of dividing money, these people will divide resources and opportunities.

In real life, the performance is as follows: only when you are targeted, suppressed, bullied or tripped, you will also cause losses to yourself, you will not get what you deserve, or you will lose what you have; Men may also show conflicts with heterosexual partners caused by people around them, or heterosexual partners are taken away by people around them.

In this fortune, even if you don't provoke others, others will provoke you. Some people are narrow-minded and jealous, which will be more obvious.

If you can be sure that you are in such a lucky state, you can eat an injury to cope with improvement. (In reality, the results of many fortunes are similar, but for different reasons, we need to improve them in different ways and can't use them indiscriminately. )

Divide wealth than robbery, and you can make money if you have food injuries than if you rob raw food injuries. (Turn hostility into help)

What hurts is people's thoughts, thinking and actions.

Practice in real life:

1, don't deliberately avoid each other.

Compared with robbery, it is a mutual relationship. When others are targeting you, they will worry that you are targeting him. If he has an influence on you, you will also influence him. If you deliberately avoid it, you will only suffer.

2, put forward new requirements * * * to participate in the completion, which is beneficial to everyone.

You can ease the transfer of hostility. Even if this matter is not implemented in the end, you can give him an idea before to lure the other party to plan the follow-up things. As long as the other party thinks about it, it will temporarily become the same camp.

If things can be implemented, it will be more beneficial and beneficial to everyone involved.

3. Understand each other and lead each other. (more difficult to do)

It is inevitable that others will have a needle to their own words and actions, understand each other, guess what the other party may do, lay out in advance, and surpass each other in thinking, and the other party is forced to be a helper.

But the specific practice needs to vary from person to person and from thing to thing.

Some people always aim at themselves, no matter what the reason, don't try to ease the relationship with flattery, otherwise the other party will only get worse until they take all your things.

If you want others not to take it to heart, the most fundamental thing is to know yourself and improve your ability. No one will bully people who are stronger than themselves, and people will only fear the strong.

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