The love story between Su Shi and Wang Fu in Dangkou Zhi. What kind of person is Su Shi's wife Wang Fu?

Like other periods of feudal society in China and other families, the women in Meishan Sujia always had no names. Su Xun loves her daughter very much, but her name is Ba Niang, which is obviously determined according to the ranking order; Su Shi's mother, Mrs. Cheng, grandmother and even Su Zhe's wife Su Shi all have nameless surnames, most of which are Su Shi and Su Zhencheng. However, it is a miracle that the three women who accompanied Su Shi all had their own names: Wang Fu, Wang Runzhi and Wang Chaoyun. Miracles must begin with Wang Fu.

After Wang Fu met Su Shi, he became Bandura. Wang Fu was born in a small family, not only knew how to read reasonably, but to Su Shi's surprise, she was very familiar with poetry books and had an excellent memory. Sometimes she can't even catch up with Su Shi. Su Shi said in the epitaph of the late wife Wang:

At first, I didn't even know the book myself. I don't know if I can last a day without walking. Later, Shi forgot one thing, but he remembered it. If you ask other books, you will know something about them. Therefore, we know its sensitivity and quietness.

Careful readers can see that Su Shi did not say that Wang Fu would accompany him to study after marriage. This "beginning" should be when we first met. "If you saw Shi reading, you wouldn't be walking around all day." I don't know whether it was in the Su family or the Wang family, or in the mountain temple where Su Shi studied. The daughter of a small family doesn't pay much attention!

If young couples often have half a sentence, then after Su Shi became an official, Wang Fu's "husband" has already surpassed the category of "untouchable". Su Shi also recorded:

From the historian Yu Fengxiang to the outside world, he never asked about the details. He said, "Go far away and don't be careless." The reason why you left the stone the day before was to talk to each other. Shi is talking with the guests outside. Jun, listen. When he flinches, he will repeat his words and say, "If someone is talking at both ends and only his son wants it, what's the use of his son and human language?" When someone asks Shi, you say, "It's not too late. This is a clever man, and he must be quick. " As expected. When you are dying, you can hear more. You are an insightful person.

Su Shi is straightforward and has no bad people in his eyes. This is what Su Xun is most worried about and what Wang Fu cares about all day. But what she did to Su Shi outside reached the level of "not asking for details" and obviously violated "women's rights". Not only that, Wang Fu "overheard" the conversation between the guest and Su Shi behind the screen, reminding Su Shi to watch out for two mice coming first, and asking have it both ways. Su Shi here is a person who can't remember clearly, but like Zhang and these two little people who persecuted Su Shi, he is a frequent "friend" of Fengxiang and Su Shi. Later, it turned out that Wang Fu did have foresight. It can be seen that Wang Fu's exhortation to Su Shi sometimes reached the point of criticism. The word "erudite" is the ancient Mogao's evaluation of scholars. Su Shi used these two words to describe his wife, which shows how much he respects Wang Fu.

Wang Fu often stops Su Shi's bad behavior. Su Shi once recalled:

An official lives in Liu Xiahui in chains, but there is no snow. The snow is good, and the ground is only a few inches from the grave. Suspicion is the place where the ancients hid Dan medicine and wanted to send it. The late wife Zhuang Dejun said: "If my first menstruation is here, I won't send it." Stone is even more ashamed.

Selected Works of Su Shi, Volume 73, The First Lady Don't Tell Nightmares.

When Su Shi was in Fengxiang, influenced by Ouyang Xiu's annotation of ancient books and the excavation of bronzes around Liu Chang, he once liked to collect cultural relics. As for Taoist alchemy, he was obsessed with it since he was a child. Wang Fu advised her husband not to dig around with her mother-in-law's words, which made Su Shi very ashamed. Therefore, in Su Shi's mind, Wang Fu is not only a good wife and mother, but also a supervisor of his own behavior. If we only rely on the combination of parents' orders and matchmakers' words, according to Su Shi's unruly character, they will never tolerate people he doesn't like to interfere in his affairs, let alone let people restrain their behavior. However, Wang Fu not only listened to his advice, but also remembered it all his life. This shows the equal relationship between two people and the feeling that two hearts belong to each other from another side.

At this point, let's go back to the scene where Su Shi and Chen Jichang went to the "Queenstown" temple to "summon the soul" on 1 20th. Perhaps Su Shi would verbally ridicule Chen Jichang's family for having a roaring "lion king", but Chen Jichang knew in his heart that Su Shi did not regard Wang Fu as a "queen" when he was alive? Today, the harbor composed of Wang Runzhi and Wang Chaoyun is warm, but Wang Fu's exhortation and even criticism of Su Shi has disappeared forever. A rude person always needs a good woman to "polish". Perhaps this is the biggest loss in his heart.

The place of love: unforgettable Matsuoka short film

Next, we will focus on "Shorty Matsuoka". Semantically, if "Ai Songshan" refers to the tomb of Wang Fu, it is the same as the previous "lonely grave of a thousand miles". The subtitle of this word is "Yi Mao's Diary Dream on January 24th", and the main scene in the dream is the reappearance of Wang Fu in Window of Xiao Xuan. The lonely grave has been mentioned before. If Tomb-Sweeping Day or his wife dies, it is mainly the orphan's grave. It is reasonable to look after it again. The first word is not based on the praise of the solitary grave, so it is not necessary for the author to repeat it in only 60 words.

Scholars always refer to "Love Songshan" as Wang Fu's graveyard, which is based on Su Shi's poem "Playing like a pine and cypress", including a sentence "When I was a teenager, Donggang was full of pine". In fact, when Su Shi returned to Sichuan to bury his father and Wang Fu, he was already a 32-year-old widower. Is he still a teenager?

When Su Shi was a teenager, he farmed, grazed and planted trees with his grandfather. His grandfather Su Xu died in Qing Li on 1047, when Su Shi was twelve years old. This is the true meaning of "youth". In February 2008, Su Xun and others were buried in Andaoli, Xiuwen Township, meishan county. This is the real "Donggang". February is also a good season for pine trees. Regarding Wang Fu's cemetery, Su Shi made it clear that it was "eight steps northwest of Mrs. Pengshan County's tomb in Meishan", and the "northeast eyebrow" was inconsistent with the age, place and time of planting pine in Donggang as a teenager.

Su Shi also said in the famous Dongpo Ci: "Jujube trees can be peeled when planted, but pine trees are awkward when planted." Ten years ago, my plan was passed. "With a little attention, we can calculate the dream of Su Shi's grandfather Su Xu and his Wang Fu, Michigan, which was 28 years ago. If the pine tree planted by Su Shi as a teenager is still "dwarf pine" 28 years later, is it because the tree species he chose is too poor or the soil and water in Meishan is too poor!

Of course, there is a poem by Su Shi, "The old man went back to the Yuyuan Garden and planted 30,000 pines himself". The Old Man Spring is the graveyard of Su Xun and Mrs. Cheng. Wang Fu is buried not far from here, but there is plenty of water. According to Su Shi's theory of "ten-year pine", it will not be a "short pine ridge" by then.

More than 20 years ago, when I visited these two tombs, I found that the tombs of Teacher Lao Su and Mrs. Cheng were surrounded by camphor trees. Wang Fu's tomb is in the northwest corner, but there are no pine trees in the whole cemetery.

Looking for the old farmer on the hillside, the answer is: it has been said for generations that when element fragrance plants camphor trees, pine trees will give birth to caterpillars. How do rich people plant pine trees in cemeteries? Cinnamomum camphora never gives birth to insects, which is very rare. People in the village said that with these camphor trees, Su's descendants became famous.

Some people may say that it was not like this in the local area more than 900 years ago. The pine trees near Su Tomb were cut down by Meishan during the Cultural Revolution. Then, when we are looking for a cemetery for Ms. Cheng, let's first look at the local situation in Suxun.

Please look at Su Xun's "Old Man Jingming":

Ding You, when burying his dead wife in Yu Bu, got the mountain in Wuyang Town. The house on this hill has always been tall and strong. It divides into two branches at the end and is surrounded by rotation. There is spring water between the two mountains, and the ancient buildings in Dashuijing Ancient Buildings are in the north and right, which can be drunk by more than 0/00 households every day. Fortune-tellers say "good luck", that is, burying books as God's residence. The journey of covering water usually goes with the mountain, but when the mountain stops, the spring water becomes clear. If the essence of the mountain comes from a distant place, then all animals will stay here instead of going, so that they can be buried without being hurt. People who asked Spring the other day said it was for the elderly. When asked about the reason for his name, he said: Ten years later, the mountains are empty and the world is open. Old people often have pale faces and gray hair. They die in spring, but they hide in spring. According to legend, people have had this idea for a long time.

"Tall and strong" mountains and gurgling fountains are places where immortals live. Who can see the shadow of "Dwarf Songshan Mountain"?

After the publication of the first volume of Forever Love Su Dongpo, Su Shi's description of Wang Fu's independent love aroused strong repercussions among readers. In the summer of 2002, I went to Jiaxian to attend the 13th International Su Shi Research Association. A reporter from Chengdu found my room and told me that he was from Wang Fu. He solemnly said that Qingshen does have a Wangjiazhuang. On the road from Wangjiazhuang to Zhongyan Mountain, there is indeed a hill full of rocks, and pine trees can only survive in crevices. Since ancient times, these trees are only a few feet high, which is really a "dwarf pine mountain".

Three years later, I went back and forth between Qingshen County, Wang Fu's hometown, and Zhongyan Temple, where Su Shi studied, and searched again according to the clues provided by the informant. I found that many places are covered with dwarf pines. Whether it is similar to Su Shi's Short Pine or not, readers will draw their own conclusions after reading it.

Well, after learning that "Moonlit Night" is the image of love between men and women, and "Shorty Matsuoka" is not Wang Fu's graveyard, we will continue to discuss the previous sentence, "It is expected to be broken every year".

Semantically, "every year" refers to every year, not every moment. When these two words are used together, they have obvious anniversary and times color. "The sun sets, the years are red and green" is a kind word in Lu's Look at People. "Flowers are similar from year to year, but people are different from year to year", which is a famous saying in Liu Xiyi's Fu on Two Trees with Cui Shaojian; They all circulate with the ups and downs of flowers. "Generations are endless, and rivers are similar year after year." Zhong Zhang's image of "full moon every year" is more in line with Su Shi's mood at that time. Here, "every year" clearly describes a periodic anniversary.

Wang Fu died on May 28th ten years ago and was buried in Meishan on June 29th nine years ago, but Su Shi's Poem on a Bald Head has nothing to do with these two days. The "bright moon night" that breaks their hearts every year can only be when they make love, and "Dwarf Matsuoka" is obviously the place where they make love.

As mentioned above, Wang Fang is a small family, and it is common for the daughter of a small family to go out quietly. Wouldn't it be normal if Su Shi, who was seventeen or eighteen, took Wang Fu to the pine forest he planted six years ago, or went to his grandfather's grave to tell him how his grandfather smashed a bodhisattva to save the people? About six years of pine age, what is not "short pine ridge"?

The bright moon is only a witness to the love between young men and women.