Are you a "slag sucker"?

Recently, the new network term "slag absorption system" has caught fire in Weibo.

"Slag-sucking constitution", as its name implies, is the system that attracts love rat and love rat to approach, and it can also be understood that most relations are being dumped.

Well, before analyzing the slag absorption system, we need to give a definition of "slag".

Is Neptune a scum? Many people mention this word, but they don't resist it, and even have some worship.

You can say that it is the product of modern people's morbid thinking, but it doesn't seem to be a noun with positive or negative meaning.

When we say that a person is "Neptune", in fact, to a certain extent, we affirm his ability, including his emotional ability and his ability to control his own life.

Most of the "Neptune" are either handsome or rich, and a few probably have mastered the skills and will be funny.

Of course, Show Lo's kind can be ignored directly. In my personal understanding, "Neptune" is limited to attracting suitors with personal charm before establishing a relationship with anyone.

Ronaldinho's behavior happens to be the most appropriate annotation to "slag".

In fact, everyone should have a "Neptune mentality" when dealing with feelings. Of course, this does not require you to learn to be a Neptunian, but we should take our feelings seriously, but relax emotionally.

If the person you are talking about is either cheating, PUA or violent, then you may really have a slag-sucking constitution.

According to the summary of netizens, the slag suction system usually occurs in the following categories of people.

1. People who are afraid of loneliness.

2. Love the brain, always hypnotize yourself and don't want to get out of the relationship.

3. People who are afraid of being responsible can throw the pot to each other once there is something wrong with their life.

4. People who are eager to excel but don't want to work hard, some people are particularly willing to fall in love when they can't find their own sense of value, because at least in one person's eyes, you are valuable.

The views of netizens are roughly the above four points, but on the other hand. The emergence of the new network word "slag-sucking system" and the previous "Neptune", "love rat" and "love rat" are a group of people looking for * * * songs?

I saw debater Mix mentioned by Qipa the other day, which was very interesting.

In other words, the slag suction system does not exist, and you don't have to change it deliberately, because it was invented for self-comfort.

The extension means that when you tell yourself that this is a slag suction system, you will subconsciously feel that there is nothing wrong with you, but you have met the wrong person.

Although it is not terrible to meet a "scum", what is terrible is that we can't examine our own needs and problems from the relationship. This leads to the appearance of primary slag and secondary slag.

Furthermore, the victims nowadays are generally thinking seriously and feel that they will always meet some "love rat" and "love rat".

But in fact, people are knee-jerk in terms of feelings. You can't determine the definition of "slag" because everyone's acceptance of "slag" is different.

And you can't guarantee that in a certain time dimension in the future, you will become "love rat" or "love rat" in the eyes of others.

The so-called slag suction system is actually human nature, because abandonment and abandonment exist in every corner of life.

But whenever one day you feel cheated by feelings, you should be glad that you are a person with feelings.