Tarot cards solve the problem of lover's dissatisfaction

Judging from your feelings for each other, your expectations for love are stronger than his. As the first card of the reverse Holy Grail shows, you are mostly emotional in this relationship, and you will silently analyze and ponder his reactions and actions in your heart, trying to find a little understanding of his mind. However, your emotional holy grail card meets his stubborn emperor card, suggesting that you are in unrequited love.

He can feel your mind, and as early as you bring up emotional topics to him from time to time, he will more or less understand the meaning of your side ball. In fact, he will imagine the days with you, and he will also question whether his feelings for you are enough for a relationship between men and women. However, the reality is in front of him, and your expectations are within reach. He still can't convince himself to fall in love with you and take a crucial step.

Judging from your behavior, you are not in a hurry. As can be seen from the reversal of One Sword and Four, the overall situation is still relatively stable. Step by step, you will understand what you are doing, and you don't want to pressure him. At the same time, you are also reflecting on what you have been waiting for him all these years. Is there any room for development in your relationship? In this kind of thinking and hesitation, time flies in a hurry, and it is several years in a blink of an eye. When both of you didn't find it, it actually occupied an irreplaceable position in each other's hearts.

And his movements are more casual than yours. If you still have some strategic significance, he will be more casual. Even if there has been an ambiguous spark, it is still impossible to determine the connection of love. The fundamental reason for his casualness is that he is confused and does not know what he wants. Even if you do have the advantages he appreciates, it is still difficult for him to pierce enough paper. Mentally speaking, unconsciously, your concern for him made him gain the upper hand in your communication, and his mentality became more selfish. I want to enjoy your tenderness, but I don't want to promise you.

Although it seems that you expect more from this relationship, you still expect him to be more active than you in action. Judging from the sword knight on the other side, he is a charming man with great ambition, clever mind and quick response. He is enterprising and unwilling to fall behind others. For him, feelings are not the first. In this way, he always has a way to prevaricate his feelings, so for him, the road to feelings is not smooth, and he always tries to get himself out of a relationship, be strong and see farther.

He hopes to get a free position in this relationship. On the one hand, he can be good at dancing in his own world, on the other hand, he can occupy weight in your heart. This mentality also echoes what I said before about selfishness. And such selfishness is cultivated indirectly by your efforts.

The biggest obstacle between you two is not only the inertia caused by the positioning of feelings in recent years, but also the compromise that he wants to win your favor but can't pay. This imbalance exists in his heart, which makes him escape again and again.

How to break through this situation requires a lot of efforts and time. As positive energy shows, it takes considerable patience and perseverance to become a lover with him. You don't have to express your thoughts directly with softness, but don't always indulge his avoidance. Maybe you will worry that two people can't even be friends, but think about what you want and what you want. If you just spend it like this, it may be a lifelong regret.

Personally, I don't agree with what the upstairs said, I will definitely become lovers, because there are too many suppressed cards in the whole deck, and it is still too hasty to draw a conclusion only by a positive force.

The above is my answer, I hope it will help you.

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